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Thanks Ynotburdad, appreciate the effort made to put out the word on another bad apple here. He looked about as much Native American as Elizabeth Warren is. That was first red flag I saw when viewing his profile just now. That and the fact half of it, an important half, was basically left blank. That’s also a big red flag for me saying this guy obviously isn’t serious about securing a position with anyone. Let’s all keep on searching. I think there is a good houseboy out there deserving of all of us.

i've met several good men or couples thru the site, some that i've stayed in touch with even when things didn't work out between us. the site is very haphazardly administered, as an afterthought to the webcam porn portion of the site. and it's like most dating sites in the modern era, has lots of flakes, bots and picture collectors. but if you fill out your profile, chat with people, vet them, ask them practical questions, video chat them, get a background check etc, it's pretty obvious who is actually leaning into meeting and checking each other out. it's possible to meet good guys if the math of your competing but reasonable expectations works out. but it's a long shot. good luck.

Yup he tried that on me also just this morning 3/8/19. I gave him Nothing. Then their are the Ads from Flushing NYC, there are several posts from there all say they need travel money. After I told them I lived in South Jersey only 3 hours away & I would come up there to pick them up in my truck to get them & all their stuff. They stop chatting with me, Blocking me. I reported several to Houseboy & nothing was done about it. Add Muscledhelper to the SCAMMER's LIST

Totally agree, a scammer. His lease is up, truck is packed, needs gas money, shames you if you balk, then knows you were just bs! Remember the number O N E RULE. DO NOT SEND MONEY. !!!! REGARDLESS WHAT iS SAID. He is good, he is convincing, he is good at shaming, he is a. S C A M M E R !!!!!!

you can find NDAs and contracts for domestic servants online but you can't add anything about sex or kink. any language of that type is 'metricious consideration" and invalidates the rest of the contract. generally i think it's good to negotiate what you want and write it down to be clear but it's not something either of you would ever want to risk taking to court. so it's just for clarity of communication & can be a hot way to negotiate.

it would be great to have a way to only see new profiles like most similar sites eg an option to hide previously viewed or if i've already shared a pic etc

it would be good to summarize some of these tips and have them permanently posted on the site. I'd be willing to pull a draft together.