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Meeting or even exceeding each other’s personal wants, needs and desires, as best one can, I believe should be the true goal in a houseboy/employer relationship. That of course would typically include “taking care of” the houseboy as he would/should be taking care of his employer, however that is mutually agreed upon. Simply meeting each other’s wants and needs is my personal goal with a houseboy.

Of course they should be taken care of. Now if you mean total financial support that depends on the individual’s wants and needs. As well as the employer’s willingness of course. I often run across boys interested only in room and board with no interest in work outside the home. Others wanting to work outside the home either part or full time. Then of course those seeking a salary along with room, board, etc. just all depends on the houseboy’s wants or needs. Personally I offer room, board and salary as well as potential to travel with me. So in summary, it all depends on the wants and needs of the houseboy as well as to what the prospective employer is willing to offer. Hope that helps. Good luck everyone.

I personally have started requesting a “verified photo” be sent before any kind of serious discussion and or questioning begins in order to at the very least discover if they are real, regardless if they are using a bogus name or not. And when I say real I mean what they really look like. As many profiles are faceless. My questioning, after a verified photo is sent, goes directly to asking about their current life’s situation. Including their current living arrangement, if they are tied down to a lease or not? Are they currently a student, working and if so doing what/where or both? Do they have dependable transportation? Any pets that they would want to bring? Then questions on their experiences as far as tasks and duties that I require they do if I take them on. And importantly how do they feel about doing said tasks? Lastly I stress very much so how important it is for us both to build trust in each other, without which there can be no arrangement. Trust takes time to build through totally honest and open communication with each other. And that must include video chatting. If they come up with some excuse that they cannot video chat sometime soon or give reasonable answers to my very reasonable questions then I don’t waste anymore time with them. They either are here just to fantasize, to lie in order to get money sent to them or professional con artists trying to gain as much personal info so as to use it for nefarious purposes. In summary, it takes time and effort once the two parties find some kind of mutual interest and wish to pursue the possibility of coming to a mutually beneficial arrangement. Good luck everyone.