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I've found a few houseboys from this site and they have worked out pretty well, so here's my two cents: First and foremost, I've found that you shouldn't expect sex to be part of the equation. If that's what you are wanting or expecting it's most likely gonna turn out badly. You've got someone staying at your place that might have no where else to go or no way to feed themselves. They are most likely in a desperate situation and if they had the means to pay their own rent or had family to help they wouldn't be looking to be a houseboy. Don't put him in the situation of feeling unsafe by even suggesting it's something on your mind. Also, if what you are truly wanting is someone to keep up the house, there may be little incentive to clean up if someone thinks they ar being kept around for sex. If sex is what you are expecting, then better to go look for someone explicitly wanting a sugar daddy and stop the pretense. To that end, one issue I have (and I've heard from friends who have used this site to find a houseboy) is that the profile pages are overly sexualized. When you look at a profile, the first thing you see is the "loads in mouth / loads in ass" with porn pics. What sort of expectations are we setting here from the start? Folks also don't like that when you set up a profile most of the questions want to know about dick size and sexual positions etc. Another complaint I have is I've wanted to upload pictures of the room I have here, the house, the view of the city, pics of the group of roommates that live at the house, etc. These are all things I'd imagine a potential houseboy would like to see. But the only thing we're allowed to show is a picture of ourselves. Again, setting the expectation that all he really would care about is "would I do" the employer. In my situation I think he'd be at least as interested in what his room looks like. As long as the site is geared towards sex being expected, don't be shocked that it attracts sketchy people. So here's my advice: 1- get rid of the "takes load in ass / mouth" graphic on the top of profiles. Super tacky. 2- allow pictures of folks houses, yards, households, room the houseboy will be living. 3- allow folks to opt out of the sex questions

More scam profiles.

I've been on here for a few months now, and I see people posting about scammers in here all the time. Tonight I was fortunate enough to encounter my first scammer, and I saw him coming from 200 miles away and I promptly told him "No way". Don't fall for the scammers games, guys. They message you out of the blue, tell you that you're cute and they like you and they want to come and be with you and do all of these unheard of sexual things to you... but wait... there's a catch: "I ran out of gas. I... I had a flat tire. I didn't have enough money for cab fare. My tux didn't come back from the cleaners. An old friend came in from out of town. Someone stole my car. There was an earthquake. A terrible flood. Locusts!" It sounds bad, I know... But, if you send them a few hundred dollars, the world will once again be righted and they will come directly to you and it will be nothing but sunshine and happiness until the end of time. DON'T DO IT! My rendition of what may happen is, clearly, overly dramatic and you can (hopefully) see that what I've laid out before you is a load of crap. The kids with the to-die-for sexy pictures who say they love you will not be as obvious. Regardless, you must resist them. If they truly are homeless, stranded, etc there are resources available to them who will help them: They can post on their local Craigslist for somewhere to crash for a few days. It will be much easier for them to get somewhere local (and at no cost to you, to boot!) than for you to give them money to fly/drive/bicycle to wherever you are. They can go to a shelter. There are 3,500+ shelters in the US. Some cater specifically to Youth -- some even to GLBT youth. (http://www.homelessshelterdirectory.org/) No car, no gas, pogo stick broken? No way to get to the shelter? They can call the local police. They will gladly take them to a shelter. Did their parents throw them out because they're gay? Call the local PFLAG office. They'll put 'em up for a few days and help them get back on their feet. (http://community.pflag.org/page.aspx?pid=256) You do not have to help them. Their predicament whether real, or most likely, a fictionalization is not your fault. They were like that when you found them, and they will be like that when you keep on walking. The above resources are available to them free of charge. Keep your money, buy yourself something pretty -- don't give it to them. Bottom line, please don't send them money. It's a trick. If it sounds too good to be true (i.e.: drop-dead gorgeous guy telling you that you're hotter than an oven on the sun, when you know good and well that you're an elderly bald man*, and he wants nothing more than to be snuggled up in your arms tonight.) it probably is. Common sense is the rule guys. * Nothing against elderly bald men, by the way. I just needed an example. Everyone is beautiful in their own way.

It's amazing how many boys live at 68-29 Main Street in Flushing NY

He added a fourth - all fake, all immediately want to go to google chat and want to come to you right way - they just need money. Doesn't even put any effort into it. Asks nothing expect when can you send him money.

Thank you so very much for posting this. I hope everyone reads your post and uses caution when contacting every boy.

Hi! I am from Pennsylvania, but I currently travel weekly for work. I am looking for a long term role where I can be a houseboy for someone (or someones’) who is very loving but also strict and dominant. I am imagining waking up at 5am (before you), cooking breakfast every day (passion for cooking) kissing you good morning, doing all the chores for most of the day, relaxing a little bit, and then cooking you dinner and pleasuring you in different ways every single night, with no off days. I would wear outfits you chose, follow a schedule and complete tasks that you command, and bend to your every whim in the bedroom. In return, I imagine I get free room (or low cost) and board and hopefully an allowance along with some free time to enjoy sightseeing and activities (non-sexual) outside of the home. I have extremely soft hands as well, tehe. I’m 5’6 140 lbs, Caucasian with blue eyes and brown hair. I am into being praised (“who’s a good boy?”) and generally pleasing however I can. I like a clean and proper environment, one with positivity and a focus on basic healthy activities! I’m very real, just nervous since this involves a lot of commitment, but I am looking around and hopefully you can be the one for me! I can’t add more pictures because of the file limit, but I can give more if needed.

And I have a feeling that they all have the same address in Flushing New York

always report each profile.

I think that many people on this site just treat this site like a regular porn site, versus dealing with real peoples lives. (I got to be first to admit there is a lot of eye candy on the site.) the only way to really fix this issue is that the owners of this website gets serious and make it to where people can meet and employ people who want to be employed!

No one pays relocation

With Mozilla Firefox, Microsoft Edge, and other browser platforms, there is an add-on application you can get generally called Reverse Image Search allowing you to RIGHT click on a photo and search for similar across numerous websites. A good 30% of the 'houseboys' on this website are FRAUDULENT - using someone else's photos OR claiming to be someone else. PLUS, IF you contact someone and they refuse to send additional photos - THAT'S a good indication that something's wrong!

Scammer be aware. Never replies to question, I'm talking basic simple info. Be careful

Go straight to videochat. I used to set up videochat after several email exchanges. But now I've learned to make it step #1. I met one guy who was completely genuine. He had no problem with video chat, liked the idea of seeing if I was for real too. Two other guys; One never showed up to the chat and I never heard from him again The other pretended to have no access to any device capable of videochat (you can do it for free at the library if you really have a 27 year old phone with no camera like you say). Dont waste your time on the scammers and players. Filter them out from the start.

Before I paid to relocate someone there would be extensive chats about expectations online, then I would visit them to see if everything's a good fit. If that's the case then I'd personally relocate them.

Ggood-looking Boca Raton Florida couple looking for house point to come and enjoy our lives with us. must love dogs we have three and also must take care of the house and the dogs. The only wrong business so there is opportunity for extra work. we are too nice guys and both looking. Occasional friend would be fine too but really looking for someone to live with us send email or text

This site seems to be just full of scammers! I have talked to four guys and all just want money or scams. It's so bad one guy had two profiles and forgot he was talking to me on both! Not sure this site is worth the time or energy! BEWARE!

Be careful!!! desparation is not attractive to serious houseboys or employers. Desparation is a sign that you are unable to manage your situation, and draws scammers and fakes who may want to take advantage of you. worse, serious employers see desparation as a red flag, often indicating the houseboy is himself a scammer. Be VERY careful as this word and Post is a red flag!!! And NOT the type of red flag that guides an airplane to the landing strip.

Not retired. Still producing and acting.

TIRED OF GOING IT ALONE? Strong Dad figure looking for son who realizes he NEEDS his Dad. Life has become challenging and he needs help figuring it out in a safe place. Son needs love, affection, affirmation, encouragement, stability, sanity, safety and patient care. Dad needs son's devotion and doting attitude to build a solid and successful future together. Dad is a professional mentor, business owner, and life coach. How do I find this young man?

The problem we run into is that often the reason a houseboy is looking for a job is that they are not working and have no money so unless you are willing to help with travel they cannot afford to get to you. Normally I tell them I will reimburse them for any travel expenses once they arrive and all is good and everything they have told me is true. I made the mistake of sending $100 to Michael22 for gas money and of course he turned out to not only be a scammer, but using different names on different sites. On the "other" houseboy site he is Matthew Myers, on here he is Michael Dawson, which is the name he used at Western Union to pick up my money. Insist on seeing your boy on cam either on yahoo or skype or on your phone's facetime and get him to take a selfie in the bathroom mirror showing either a current newspaper or holding up his fingers a certain way so that he can't just send a pic off the internet of the guy he is using to fake who he is.

Hi, My name is Andy Im 21y.o, and I am in Baltimore Maryland, I am looking to relocate anywhere and become your new house boy, I will make a wonderful houseboy and much more. I will relocate anywhere

I've been a houseboy 3 times now, and I can tell you that there is no text book answer that can tell you what you should or shouldn't do that you don't already know. Now don't get me wrong, I've tried more than 3 positions, but I only stay where the situation is right for us both. It's not about knowing what to do to satisfy your host. As a houseboy (and many forget this), you just have to stay 100% true to yourself and don't just say "yeah, I could try doing that" if you're not really into it. No matter how great you think the offered position is, there is always a better one on the next page. Never try to change yourself to fit a houseboy position. Meeting the right host and finding the right houseboy position (and for hosts to find the perfect houseboy) is like a puzzle. No matter how close some pieces come to fitting in more than one position, you'll never have a complete result unless every single piece is in the right spot. Anything less than that and there will always be that pieces left out and even if you don't miss it, someone will. I guess if there was a text book answer, the text book itself should be your own heart.

Houseboy by the name Devid contacted me and fleeced me out of $1000 US. He issued me offers to come to this location for 1 month trial. Lives in Khazicstan. Don't fall for it. Luckiky I taped everything so Feds don't have to work to hard.

It doesn’t matter which browser I use. I can never load the page that shows who’s viewed my profile. Safari, Chrome, Firefox, doesn’t matter. What’s happening?

Another scam profile is ElijahFeguson All of his pictures have been taken from a German Models page https://www.pixwox.com/de/profile/fr_ost_y/ He won't do any video or phone and will only use google chats. Took him a day to ask for me to send him money.

Hi, this is my first time posting on the forums and I know this site is technically for employers interested in houseboys but I'm curious if there's any older men here who are interested in a househusband. (Or housewife, I'm not too caught up in gender since I'm technically nonbinary/gender-fluid. I'm just as okay wearing a tux as I am a french maid outfit). In any case, I recently turned 27 and even though at this age I should be concerned about settling into a career, for as long as I can remember the idea of settling down with someone for the rest of my life has always resonated with me. I've always fantasized about having a husband to cook for, clean up after and submit to but unfortunately, I'm from Jamaica and that's not a possibility at the moment since same sex marriage isn't legal. Of course I don't expect anyone of sound mind to immediately jump into a marriage with someone they've never met, especially someone from another country, but I am curious if there's anyone here who'd be interested in affirming my feminine desire to get married and be a homemaker/househusband later down the line. I don't really have my sights set on anywhere in particular, as long as it's somewhere that gay marriage is legal and you're someone who's emotionally available, emotionally stable and emotionally intelligent (and not currently married to someone else) that's good enough for me. Ideally we'd get to know each other virtually, exchange pictures, video call, date long distance and do everything committed couples do in a monogamous relationship for a bit and then you could even visit me if you're in a position to do so until I'm able to relocate and officially tie the knot. I understand if the idea of starting off long distance might sound daunting, but I genuinely believe I'm worth the investment (and I'm more than willing to put in the time/effort if you are). I also have strong maternal instincts so I also look forward to nurturing/raising children of our own someday, but it's not necessarily a requirement and we can cross that bridge when we get there (I'm fine with the idea of raising a fur baby). On a semi related note, I'm a total softie who enjoys all the romantic, mushy stuff but I definitely have a kinky side too. I'm pretty open minded so I'm willing to try almost anything as long as it's safe, sane and consensual. I live to please! For what it's worth, I'm open to all races and body types, but I have a soft spot for big hairy men. I don't know what it is, but there's just something about being cuddled by a bear that makes me feel safe and protected and taken care of. Bonus points if you're a dominant top that generally thinks of himself as a Daddy type (if you're verse or a side that's fine with me too). If any of this interests you, feel free to reach out. Looking forward to hearing from you! P.S. There are pics of me on my profile in case you're curious but I have no problem sending additional pics to verify my identify/prove my sincerity. P.P.S. Please don't be a jerk. If you can't relate to anything I've mentioned so far and this isn't for you, just wish me luck and be on your way. I can appreciate constructive criticism and sound advice, but I can do without passive aggressive comments and snide remarks. Thank you!

ANOTHER $. SCAMMER HUSHPETERS

DavidRoca62 FUCK YOU you're harassing me on here & email So listen up & read if you're literate No profile FUCK YOU no response to questions FUCK YOU so FUCK YOU we are NOT INTERESTED IN A SCAMMER FOR MONEY SO FUCK YOU

any issues getting on website? been 3 - 4 days can't even get to login page any help appreciated

Hey guys, stop-ya-bitchin, This site is ancient, it's likely there's not much staff, probably only one person who's aged out of current web tools. Instead of complaining, offer to volunteer some of your time and know how to help improve the site. It's obvious he(?) Needs help. Should your offer be refused, that's when the bitchin is appropriate.

I'd say depends largely on what you want, is it company on the road... or are you thinking more so someone in the sleeper tied up and ready to be used whenever you get bored?

Just a little update. Cutexxx admitted in chat that he is actually from "an African country" and is a scammer looking for money. After he finally admitted that he was indeed a scammer - he asked for money again. You have to give him credit for persistence.

That is very true. so I have to believe that there are people actually doing that.

Jim Nabors, the Hawaii resident well known for his starring role in the 1960s television sitcom "Gomer Pyle, USMC," married his longtime male partner early this month, he told Hawaii News Now Tuesday. Nabors, 82, said he married his companion of 38 years, Stan Cadwallader, who's 64, in Seattle on Jan. 15. Nabors declined an on-camera interview but spoke to Hawaii News Now by phone. "I'm 82 and he's in his 60s and so we've been together for 38 years and I'm not ashamed of people knowing, it's just that it was such a personal thing, I didn't tell anybody," Nabors said. "I'm very happy that I've had a partner of 38 years and I feel very blessed. And, what can I tell you, I'm just very happy." Nabors said he and Cadwallader traveled to Washington state, where gay marriages became legal in early December 2012. They were married at the Fairmont Olympic Hotel in Seattle. A judge performed the marriage ceremony in the privacy of their hotel room with a couple of friends who live down the street from them near Diamond Head as witnesses, Nabors said. http://www.hawaiinewsnow.com/story/20805642/exclusive-actor-jim-nabors-marries-his-longtime-male-partner

He is using profile pictures from a porn shoot from Eastern Europe from years ago (goggle images) , He says he’s lived in Boise Idaho with his aunt because his parents are dead, but he has a phone # from Missouri. Only has two pictures he can send because his phone doesn’t work, even though he’s texting from it, And even though he just sent pictures from it, they just happen to be the two from the porn shoot that he used in his profile, has no other pictures.

New to this site and hoping to find a good and trustworthy houseboy. We are a married couple, looking for a houseboy to assist us with house responsibilities while our work lives. The houseboy would assist with the property management business, so a modest wage will be provided, along with room/board. We live on the water in a beautiful area of the state with many parks and natural springs. We are hoping this site will provide us with great leads for houseboys willing to relocate and move to Florida. Inquire within for more information.

BEWARE of HotStud4U. Please check out other topics in the Forum about him and other scammers before you interview someone.

media goes for extremes as in "if it bleeds it leads" and some people have argued for centuries that it is typical of empires in decline to get more decadent as people are wealthy, bored & disassociated from reality, cf caligula and no,it's not just you noticing, here are some metrics https://news.yahoo.com/why-millennials-love-faux-incest-221000452.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAANV8CfEMvKlMaM2Lp5vzkKwJgk3OJ9dTdow9ekdJ2qIdjpBebvcyiUzHuj5A-XSf0lhaI1id80O0rrb5KExJ5T757TPq1hPJKnXdetKB4bER4dlv350CEXgJPzAMODfJeHBmqX7T4SEekxQ3y-e9RdEkJRcS5K3eWtVWSq0c83RO

Simply to get the word out in hopes he doesn’t f..k someone else over. Is that too hard to understand? Some men will not stand around and do nothing. I’m one of those. And no he has never gotten anything over on me. And yes there are a lot of fakes, liars, scammers, fantasy players, etc on sites like this. Getting the word out on them may not get rid of them but if it helps one person avoid a pitfall then to me it’s worth it.

Three new scam artists with fake profiles houseboys.Steer clear, don’t waste your time. 1. HonestMentor 2. Pukky021 3. blowngerick If you wish details then pm me on the main website and I can email you what I discovered. Dont let a few rotten apples spoil the barrel. Good luck to you all.

see maxdyer23 and maxdyer24.

Retired single gay man seeking a live-in houseboy - young 18-30 ONLY - Dad/Son type situation -

I am due to move pretty soon from my current location. Hoping to find a genuine "employer". I am looking for someone who expects to create a closer bond than an employer/houseboy thing. Message me so we can get things going! I am ambitious and driven. Be the same isaacnerdton@gmail.com Willing to relocate anywhere for the right guy.

in addition to paying for their air fare , that they require BTA... Internet Financial Scams - US Embassy in London london.usembassy.gov/.../internet_... Embassy of the United States, London Beware of anyone who requests funds for a BTA, or Basic Travel Allowance, as a requirement to depart another country for the United States. There is no such thing as a BTA. In other cases, your Internet friend will claim to need a travel allowance, or travel money, to be able to travel to the United States. "Second only to flight money, the Basic Travel Allowance (BTA) is the scammers highest paying income. Also known as the Personal Travel Allowance, Travellers Allowance Fee, Travellers Assistance Fund, Travellers Assurance Fund and numerous other forms of “I have to have wodges of your cash or they won’t let me fly”. Let’s get this over with now … THERE IS NO SUCH THING any more, anywhere, it’s an online dating scam."

Bswim99 Fraud - has created a number of profiles before using the same pictures and narrative - chats with you a while and then says he actually performing a social experiment here to get guys to "healthly relationships" , his pictures can be found using google imagines and are created to several years old Russian pronography.

Last night, tinder14u called me with a sob story (hasn't eaten in days, living in car, etc.) and wanted me to send him money right away via Western Union so he could drive to my place. I said I would think about it and call him back. I Googled the name he gave me, Derrick Odear, and it came back with a link to a Houseboy forum from a few years ago where someone reported that name as a scammer. When I called him back and told him what I found, I was surprised when he didn't try to deny that he was the person in question. Instead he said, "Are you going to believe those guys?". When I said "yes" he hung up on me.

I’m looking for a houseboy/personal assistant to help me in my enterprise in Central France. I’m starting a new life and a new business after working in IT for the last twenty five years. This is a serious job offer (see my profile) which could be a great opportunity for an inexperienced guy who wants to start a new life, to learn and to be mentored. I’ve had some interest from guys outside Europe but there is a problem with their stay being limited to the 90-day tourist visa. Has anyone found a solution to this restriction?

Hi we are a long term married couple looking for a house boy. This is a non sexual position and we are not looking for a sex kitten. My partner and I both are college educated, have very good jobs, and do well financially. My partner has ADHD and works a very high stress job as a market manager in retail. He struggles with keeping organized, making deadlines, and staying on top of things at home. Our lives can be a lot easier if we had someone competent to manage the house and keep him on track. We can work out all the details but your primary focus will be to manage our house and manage my partners life so he can stay focused on work. Specifically, keeping up with his very extensive daily schedule, ensuring he makes it to all his meetings, make all of his travel reservations and ensure he makes it where he needs to be, ensure that he is set up with his laptop, cellphone, keys, ipad, and everything he needs to walk out of the house with each morning. To sum it up we need someone to manage his days and send him occasional texts to keep him on track. His ADHD makes him a powerhouse in the retail word but hard to handle at home with the constant forgetfulness etc. If you don't know what this is please google it before contacting me. Also, please be able to pass as professional as he may use you occasionally to assist him with meetings etc if he has a lot going on, you'll need to help him keep track of the tiny details and make sure he doesn't miss a beat. We can offer free room and board (private room with a bathroom), a car (we are huge Mustang fans, so basically take your pic of what year and color from the garage), cell phone, and a salary that we will negotiate. Again we are not looking for anything sexual! To be a good fit you must be strong in planning, organizing, prioritizing, and following directions. Ideally we would like to find the right guy to have a long partnership that will turn into a family structure.

A red flag for me as a houseboy, is when an employer has been a member of the site for several months and years, yet is still looking for a houseboy. It shouldnt take longer than 60 days to find a houseboy... if they are serious. Employers should have to pay a premium for membership. If they can afford the lifestyle of having a houseboy, then they can afford a membership fee. A serious fee like $100 a month. Only a serious member will pay a premium fee. It makes no sense for an employer to be on here 4 years and never had a houseboy because that tells me, they are flakey, not serious or something is wrong with them and no one wants to be their houseboy.