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I've found a few houseboys from this site and they have worked out pretty well, so here's my two cents: First and foremost, I've found that you shouldn't expect sex to be part of the equation. If that's what you are wanting or expecting it's most likely gonna turn out badly. You've got someone staying at your place that might have no where else to go or no way to feed themselves. They are most likely in a desperate situation and if they had the means to pay their own rent or had family to help they wouldn't be looking to be a houseboy. Don't put him in the situation of feeling unsafe by even suggesting it's something on your mind. Also, if what you are truly wanting is someone to keep up the house, there may be little incentive to clean up if someone thinks they ar being kept around for sex. If sex is what you are expecting, then better to go look for someone explicitly wanting a sugar daddy and stop the pretense. To that end, one issue I have (and I've heard from friends who have used this site to find a houseboy) is that the profile pages are overly sexualized. When you look at a profile, the first thing you see is the "loads in mouth / loads in ass" with porn pics. What sort of expectations are we setting here from the start? Folks also don't like that when you set up a profile most of the questions want to know about dick size and sexual positions etc. Another complaint I have is I've wanted to upload pictures of the room I have here, the house, the view of the city, pics of the group of roommates that live at the house, etc. These are all things I'd imagine a potential houseboy would like to see. But the only thing we're allowed to show is a picture of ourselves. Again, setting the expectation that all he really would care about is "would I do" the employer. In my situation I think he'd be at least as interested in what his room looks like. As long as the site is geared towards sex being expected, don't be shocked that it attracts sketchy people. So here's my advice: 1- get rid of the "takes load in ass / mouth" graphic on the top of profiles. Super tacky. 2- allow pictures of folks houses, yards, households, room the houseboy will be living. 3- allow folks to opt out of the sex questions

More scam profiles.

I've been on here for a few months now, and I see people posting about scammers in here all the time. Tonight I was fortunate enough to encounter my first scammer, and I saw him coming from 200 miles away and I promptly told him "No way". Don't fall for the scammers games, guys. They message you out of the blue, tell you that you're cute and they like you and they want to come and be with you and do all of these unheard of sexual things to you... but wait... there's a catch: "I ran out of gas. I... I had a flat tire. I didn't have enough money for cab fare. My tux didn't come back from the cleaners. An old friend came in from out of town. Someone stole my car. There was an earthquake. A terrible flood. Locusts!" It sounds bad, I know... But, if you send them a few hundred dollars, the world will once again be righted and they will come directly to you and it will be nothing but sunshine and happiness until the end of time. DON'T DO IT! My rendition of what may happen is, clearly, overly dramatic and you can (hopefully) see that what I've laid out before you is a load of crap. The kids with the to-die-for sexy pictures who say they love you will not be as obvious. Regardless, you must resist them. If they truly are homeless, stranded, etc there are resources available to them who will help them: They can post on their local Craigslist for somewhere to crash for a few days. It will be much easier for them to get somewhere local (and at no cost to you, to boot!) than for you to give them money to fly/drive/bicycle to wherever you are. They can go to a shelter. There are 3,500+ shelters in the US. Some cater specifically to Youth -- some even to GLBT youth. (http://www.homelessshelterdirectory.org/) No car, no gas, pogo stick broken? No way to get to the shelter? They can call the local police. They will gladly take them to a shelter. Did their parents throw them out because they're gay? Call the local PFLAG office. They'll put 'em up for a few days and help them get back on their feet. (http://community.pflag.org/page.aspx?pid=256) You do not have to help them. Their predicament whether real, or most likely, a fictionalization is not your fault. They were like that when you found them, and they will be like that when you keep on walking. The above resources are available to them free of charge. Keep your money, buy yourself something pretty -- don't give it to them. Bottom line, please don't send them money. It's a trick. If it sounds too good to be true (i.e.: drop-dead gorgeous guy telling you that you're hotter than an oven on the sun, when you know good and well that you're an elderly bald man*, and he wants nothing more than to be snuggled up in your arms tonight.) it probably is. Common sense is the rule guys. * Nothing against elderly bald men, by the way. I just needed an example. Everyone is beautiful in their own way.

It's amazing how many boys live at 68-29 Main Street in Flushing NY

He added a fourth - all fake, all immediately want to go to google chat and want to come to you right way - they just need money. Doesn't even put any effort into it. Asks nothing expect when can you send him money.

Thank you so very much for posting this. I hope everyone reads your post and uses caution when contacting every boy.

Hi! I am from Pennsylvania, but I currently travel weekly for work. I am looking for a long term role where I can be a houseboy for someone (or someones’) who is very loving but also strict and dominant. I am imagining waking up at 5am (before you), cooking breakfast every day (passion for cooking) kissing you good morning, doing all the chores for most of the day, relaxing a little bit, and then cooking you dinner and pleasuring you in different ways every single night, with no off days. I would wear outfits you chose, follow a schedule and complete tasks that you command, and bend to your every whim in the bedroom. In return, I imagine I get free room (or low cost) and board and hopefully an allowance along with some free time to enjoy sightseeing and activities (non-sexual) outside of the home. I have extremely soft hands as well, tehe. I’m 5’6 140 lbs, Caucasian with blue eyes and brown hair. I am into being praised (“who’s a good boy?”) and generally pleasing however I can. I like a clean and proper environment, one with positivity and a focus on basic healthy activities! I’m very real, just nervous since this involves a lot of commitment, but I am looking around and hopefully you can be the one for me! I can’t add more pictures because of the file limit, but I can give more if needed.

And I have a feeling that they all have the same address in Flushing New York

always report each profile.

I think that many people on this site just treat this site like a regular porn site, versus dealing with real peoples lives. (I got to be first to admit there is a lot of eye candy on the site.) the only way to really fix this issue is that the owners of this website gets serious and make it to where people can meet and employ people who want to be employed!

No one pays relocation

With Mozilla Firefox, Microsoft Edge, and other browser platforms, there is an add-on application you can get generally called Reverse Image Search allowing you to RIGHT click on a photo and search for similar across numerous websites. A good 30% of the 'houseboys' on this website are FRAUDULENT - using someone else's photos OR claiming to be someone else. PLUS, IF you contact someone and they refuse to send additional photos - THAT'S a good indication that something's wrong!

Scammer be aware. Never replies to question, I'm talking basic simple info. Be careful

Go straight to videochat. I used to set up videochat after several email exchanges. But now I've learned to make it step #1. I met one guy who was completely genuine. He had no problem with video chat, liked the idea of seeing if I was for real too. Two other guys; One never showed up to the chat and I never heard from him again The other pretended to have no access to any device capable of videochat (you can do it for free at the library if you really have a 27 year old phone with no camera like you say). Dont waste your time on the scammers and players. Filter them out from the start.

Before I paid to relocate someone there would be extensive chats about expectations online, then I would visit them to see if everything's a good fit. If that's the case then I'd personally relocate them.

Ggood-looking Boca Raton Florida couple looking for house point to come and enjoy our lives with us. must love dogs we have three and also must take care of the house and the dogs. The only wrong business so there is opportunity for extra work. we are too nice guys and both looking. Occasional friend would be fine too but really looking for someone to live with us send email or text

This site seems to be just full of scammers! I have talked to four guys and all just want money or scams. It's so bad one guy had two profiles and forgot he was talking to me on both! Not sure this site is worth the time or energy! BEWARE!

Be careful!!! desparation is not attractive to serious houseboys or employers. Desparation is a sign that you are unable to manage your situation, and draws scammers and fakes who may want to take advantage of you. worse, serious employers see desparation as a red flag, often indicating the houseboy is himself a scammer. Be VERY careful as this word and Post is a red flag!!! And NOT the type of red flag that guides an airplane to the landing strip.

Not retired. Still producing and acting.

TIRED OF GOING IT ALONE? Strong Dad figure looking for son who realizes he NEEDS his Dad. Life has become challenging and he needs help figuring it out in a safe place. Son needs love, affection, affirmation, encouragement, stability, sanity, safety and patient care. Dad needs son's devotion and doting attitude to build a solid and successful future together. Dad is a professional mentor, business owner, and life coach. How do I find this young man?

The problem we run into is that often the reason a houseboy is looking for a job is that they are not working and have no money so unless you are willing to help with travel they cannot afford to get to you. Normally I tell them I will reimburse them for any travel expenses once they arrive and all is good and everything they have told me is true. I made the mistake of sending $100 to Michael22 for gas money and of course he turned out to not only be a scammer, but using different names on different sites. On the "other" houseboy site he is Matthew Myers, on here he is Michael Dawson, which is the name he used at Western Union to pick up my money. Insist on seeing your boy on cam either on yahoo or skype or on your phone's facetime and get him to take a selfie in the bathroom mirror showing either a current newspaper or holding up his fingers a certain way so that he can't just send a pic off the internet of the guy he is using to fake who he is.

Hi, My name is Andy Im 21y.o, and I am in Baltimore Maryland, I am looking to relocate anywhere and become your new house boy, I will make a wonderful houseboy and much more. I will relocate anywhere

I've been a houseboy 3 times now, and I can tell you that there is no text book answer that can tell you what you should or shouldn't do that you don't already know. Now don't get me wrong, I've tried more than 3 positions, but I only stay where the situation is right for us both. It's not about knowing what to do to satisfy your host. As a houseboy (and many forget this), you just have to stay 100% true to yourself and don't just say "yeah, I could try doing that" if you're not really into it. No matter how great you think the offered position is, there is always a better one on the next page. Never try to change yourself to fit a houseboy position. Meeting the right host and finding the right houseboy position (and for hosts to find the perfect houseboy) is like a puzzle. No matter how close some pieces come to fitting in more than one position, you'll never have a complete result unless every single piece is in the right spot. Anything less than that and there will always be that pieces left out and even if you don't miss it, someone will. I guess if there was a text book answer, the text book itself should be your own heart.

Hello, 28 yo in San Diego, CA seeking to become a houseboy. Ideally looking for a long-term role with someone who is clean and trustworthy. I am ok with couples. I am looking to come to you (room & board) and am open for allowance also. I enjoy a wide range of activities both in-home and outdoors (hiking, movies, sightseeing) and consider myself friendly and respectful. For room and board I am open to help you around the home and experienced in gardening and pool/house maintenance. I am good looking, fun, charismatic, and health oriented, and prefer similar personalities. My stats are 5'10 150# asian/blk/wht mix. I am open to intimacy if chemistry is right. Feel free to message me for cell/email for photos and further details. Thanks

Hi Sir, I’m Andrew and I’m spending three months in Cape Town starting in December doing a work exchange with WorldPackers. II would love to be able to meet you and see if I’m the right assistant for you and your family. I’m sane, experienced in culinary. Travel lover and experienced in house keeping and caretaking. I’ve been looking for a long time for a good man to serve. I’m 29 and 5’2, Washingtonian. I was involved with a massage therapist and picked up a trick or two as well Daddy. I thrive on spending my time volunteering and submitting to service of Gentleman.

Hey guys, haven't been online for quite some time. I'm looking to relocate to the UK on a semi permanent or permanent basis. Looking for a live in employer. Also don't mind couples (certainly have the libido for it). Can do most types of work and can learn the remaining ones. I'm a bottom and more than open to experimenting. If I have a choice I'd have sex a few times a day lol. Don't hesitate to message if interested. I'm very communicative and have never turned down the chance to chat with someone.

It doesn’t matter which browser I use. I can never load the page that shows who’s viewed my profile. Safari, Chrome, Firefox, doesn’t matter. What’s happening?

It loads with Safari but often takes a while. I find that if I search photos first for a few minutes, other functions like visitor profiles and messages work faster. Searching photos always comes up immediately. Searching for houseboys loads quickly. Viewing messages takes time to load and viewing profile visits takes a long time to load (like do something else and come back to see if it's loaded).

Hey there I'm new and it seems so far this forum is fairly quiet so I thought I would say Hi and post a topic for light discussion. Anyone who wants to join are free too as well posting any additional topics we can discuss! Be Nice Now! Will there ever be openly Gay Or Bi President? Why or why not would you say?:-\

ANOTHER $. SCAMMER HUSHPETERS

A SCAMMING MORON STAY AWAY this idiot is a scammer

Handsomeboy4u is a scammer, don't fall for his stories. He's has multiple profiles in the past.

Hey guys, stop-ya-bitchin, This site is ancient, it's likely there's not much staff, probably only one person who's aged out of current web tools. Instead of complaining, offer to volunteer some of your time and know how to help improve the site. It's obvious he(?) Needs help. Should your offer be refused, that's when the bitchin is appropriate.

Wants to go to google chat immediately, immediately starts the "daddy" label , and then says you just need to send him $600 to buy him from his current master. He eMails and Google Chats from his phone, but of course can't video chat. Sends a picture claiming it is him in his passport, the picture is an awful photoshop that overall lays part of the text. The passport is for Issac Smart White - wonder if that poor guy knows his passport information is being passed around. Also, the passport was issued in 2016 - which would make him 16 when the picture was taken - oddly it looks exactly like the picture he first send in chat - hasn't aged in the last 6+ years. Also his profile says he's 23 but his passport says 22. Use caution when messaging with this person.

Just a little update. Cutexxx admitted in chat that he is actually from "an African country" and is a scammer looking for money. After he finally admitted that he was indeed a scammer - he asked for money again. You have to give him credit for persistence.

That is very true. so I have to believe that there are people actually doing that.

You have to love it when the site makes it easy for you. I haven't messaged with either of them, so could be one or both ( the information in the profiles looks copied as well ) - advise caution when contacting either.

New to this site and hoping to find a good and trustworthy houseboy. We are a married couple, looking for a houseboy to assist us with house responsibilities while our work lives. The houseboy would assist with the property management business, so a modest wage will be provided, along with room/board. We live on the water in a beautiful area of the state with many parks and natural springs. We are hoping this site will provide us with great leads for houseboys willing to relocate and move to Florida. Inquire within for more information.

BEWARE of HotStud4U. Please check out other topics in the Forum about him and other scammers before you interview someone.

I use it, but it takes a LONG time. I have 500 mps download, so my guess is that their server is very slow and has a badly designed sort program.

I can only go by my experience with him, if he was honest there wouldn't have been an issue. Also, you're not aware of our conversation. I respect your opinion and advice but again I can only refer to my personal experience.

I could care less who he really is or where he is. I’d have nothing to do with him. He’s a scumbag, a liar and a con artist. He’s still around just with a different profile name again. Beware

see maxdyer23 and maxdyer24.

i've met several good men or couples thru the site, some that i've stayed in touch with even when things didn't work out between us. the site is very haphazardly administered, as an afterthought to the webcam porn portion of the site. and it's like most dating sites in the modern era, has lots of flakes, bots and picture collectors. but if you fill out your profile, chat with people, vet them, ask them practical questions, video chat them, get a background check etc, it's pretty obvious who is actually leaning into meeting and checking each other out. it's possible to meet good guys if the math of your competing but reasonable expectations works out. but it's a long shot. good luck.

This isn't the most glamorous offer...it's not like in the movies where you'll summer on a yacht in the Mediterranean and fly away with me every weekend to some exotic locale. Hardly. I'm just a guy who can offer you free rent in NYC in exchange for housekeeping and dogwalking. Sex would be great, but not required. My dog is old and has a bladder condition and she needs to be walked during the day while I'm at work. Walk the dog and tidy up the apartment and you'll have nights and weekends to yourself. The current houseboy (straight) leaves in August. He works nights and weekends (a cash job) and he has banked a lot of money over the past two years he's been here. Great opportunity if you're an online student or have an internet job where you can work from anywhere (or a writer). 2 bedroom apartment in Manhattan. You'll share a room with me (separate beds) and there's another roommate in the other bedroom. Nudist apartment.

Bswim99 Fraud - has created a number of profiles before using the same pictures and narrative - chats with you a while and then says he actually performing a social experiment here to get guys to "healthly relationships" , his pictures can be found using google imagines and are created to several years old Russian pronography.

it's pretty wide open and based on who you're serving and what you negotiate. usually room & board, sometimes more if you're lucky or your master is wealthy. i've been given spending money, car access, gas money, airline tickets, entertainment, etc. some very generous only expecting me to work 20 hours a week and some less so expecting me to work well past 50. PS these forums are close to moribund so you may not get too many responses. i'm happy to chat offline if you have other questions or want help. good luck.

juicybootee is also Derrick O(full name removed). He emailed that he is living in his car and needs money to come to me now. I quickly deleted him. Stay on the look out for this guy. He's been doing this for years.

He gave me the same story two days ago. When I said my partner and I would drive to him to put gas in his car and that my partner would ride back in his car while I drove mine, he immediately hung up.

Hi. Great site. Lots to like including how much proactivity there is in protecting the site from abuse. Im new here (4 days now). Employer looking for a houseboy. One thing that would help in the search is an easily accessible button on the search results that makes it possible to hide a profile. The idea is that when you run across a profile that wouldn't work, for example, distant state and not willing to lreocate, you could just click off that one and reduce the results to profiles you havn't looked at yet. Its complementary to the existing "save profile" feature. When I look at profiles, they fall into three categories, 1) Send msg now or save, 2) Rule out, 3) possibly revisit later. The "hide" helps with #2, Save with #1, and the rest end up in catagory 3. THanks -E