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I've found a few houseboys from this site and they have worked out pretty well, so here's my two cents: First and foremost, I've found that you shouldn't expect sex to be part of the equation. If that's what you are wanting or expecting it's most likely gonna turn out badly. You've got someone staying at your place that might have no where else to go or no way to feed themselves. They are most likely in a desperate situation and if they had the means to pay their own rent or had family to help they wouldn't be looking to be a houseboy. Don't put him in the situation of feeling unsafe by even suggesting it's something on your mind. Also, if what you are truly wanting is someone to keep up the house, there may be little incentive to clean up if someone thinks they ar being kept around for sex. If sex is what you are expecting, then better to go look for someone explicitly wanting a sugar daddy and stop the pretense. To that end, one issue I have (and I've heard from friends who have used this site to find a houseboy) is that the profile pages are overly sexualized. When you look at a profile, the first thing you see is the "loads in mouth / loads in ass" with porn pics. What sort of expectations are we setting here from the start? Folks also don't like that when you set up a profile most of the questions want to know about dick size and sexual positions etc. Another complaint I have is I've wanted to upload pictures of the room I have here, the house, the view of the city, pics of the group of roommates that live at the house, etc. These are all things I'd imagine a potential houseboy would like to see. But the only thing we're allowed to show is a picture of ourselves. Again, setting the expectation that all he really would care about is "would I do" the employer. In my situation I think he'd be at least as interested in what his room looks like. As long as the site is geared towards sex being expected, don't be shocked that it attracts sketchy people. So here's my advice: 1- get rid of the "takes load in ass / mouth" graphic on the top of profiles. Super tacky. 2- allow pictures of folks houses, yards, households, room the houseboy will be living. 3- allow folks to opt out of the sex questions

More scam profiles.

It's amazing how many boys live at 68-29 Main Street in Flushing NY

He added a fourth - all fake, all immediately want to go to google chat and want to come to you right way - they just need money. Doesn't even put any effort into it. Asks nothing expect when can you send him money.

Thank you so very much for posting this. I hope everyone reads your post and uses caution when contacting every boy.

I've been on here for a few months now, and I see people posting about scammers in here all the time. Tonight I was fortunate enough to encounter my first scammer, and I saw him coming from 200 miles away and I promptly told him "No way". Don't fall for the scammers games, guys. They message you out of the blue, tell you that you're cute and they like you and they want to come and be with you and do all of these unheard of sexual things to you... but wait... there's a catch: "I ran out of gas. I... I had a flat tire. I didn't have enough money for cab fare. My tux didn't come back from the cleaners. An old friend came in from out of town. Someone stole my car. There was an earthquake. A terrible flood. Locusts!" It sounds bad, I know... But, if you send them a few hundred dollars, the world will once again be righted and they will come directly to you and it will be nothing but sunshine and happiness until the end of time. DON'T DO IT! My rendition of what may happen is, clearly, overly dramatic and you can (hopefully) see that what I've laid out before you is a load of crap. The kids with the to-die-for sexy pictures who say they love you will not be as obvious. Regardless, you must resist them. If they truly are homeless, stranded, etc there are resources available to them who will help them: They can post on their local Craigslist for somewhere to crash for a few days. It will be much easier for them to get somewhere local (and at no cost to you, to boot!) than for you to give them money to fly/drive/bicycle to wherever you are. They can go to a shelter. There are 3,500+ shelters in the US. Some cater specifically to Youth -- some even to GLBT youth. (http://www.homelessshelterdirectory.org/) No car, no gas, pogo stick broken? No way to get to the shelter? They can call the local police. They will gladly take them to a shelter. Did their parents throw them out because they're gay? Call the local PFLAG office. They'll put 'em up for a few days and help them get back on their feet. (http://community.pflag.org/page.aspx?pid=256) You do not have to help them. Their predicament whether real, or most likely, a fictionalization is not your fault. They were like that when you found them, and they will be like that when you keep on walking. The above resources are available to them free of charge. Keep your money, buy yourself something pretty -- don't give it to them. Bottom line, please don't send them money. It's a trick. If it sounds too good to be true (i.e.: drop-dead gorgeous guy telling you that you're hotter than an oven on the sun, when you know good and well that you're an elderly bald man*, and he wants nothing more than to be snuggled up in your arms tonight.) it probably is. Common sense is the rule guys. * Nothing against elderly bald men, by the way. I just needed an example. Everyone is beautiful in their own way.

And I have a feeling that they all have the same address in Flushing New York

always report each profile.

I think that many people on this site just treat this site like a regular porn site, versus dealing with real peoples lives. (I got to be first to admit there is a lot of eye candy on the site.) the only way to really fix this issue is that the owners of this website gets serious and make it to where people can meet and employ people who want to be employed!

No one pays relocation

Scammer be aware. Never replies to question, I'm talking basic simple info. Be careful

Go straight to videochat. I used to set up videochat after several email exchanges. But now I've learned to make it step #1. I met one guy who was completely genuine. He had no problem with video chat, liked the idea of seeing if I was for real too. Two other guys; One never showed up to the chat and I never heard from him again The other pretended to have no access to any device capable of videochat (you can do it for free at the library if you really have a 27 year old phone with no camera like you say). Dont waste your time on the scammers and players. Filter them out from the start.

Before I paid to relocate someone there would be extensive chats about expectations online, then I would visit them to see if everything's a good fit. If that's the case then I'd personally relocate them.

Ggood-looking Boca Raton Florida couple looking for house point to come and enjoy our lives with us. must love dogs we have three and also must take care of the house and the dogs. The only wrong business so there is opportunity for extra work. we are too nice guys and both looking. Occasional friend would be fine too but really looking for someone to live with us send email or text

This site seems to be just full of scammers! I have talked to four guys and all just want money or scams. It's so bad one guy had two profiles and forgot he was talking to me on both! Not sure this site is worth the time or energy! BEWARE!

Be careful!!! desparation is not attractive to serious houseboys or employers. Desparation is a sign that you are unable to manage your situation, and draws scammers and fakes who may want to take advantage of you. worse, serious employers see desparation as a red flag, often indicating the houseboy is himself a scammer. Be VERY careful as this word and Post is a red flag!!! And NOT the type of red flag that guides an airplane to the landing strip.

Not retired. Still producing and acting.

TIRED OF GOING IT ALONE? Strong Dad figure looking for son who realizes he NEEDS his Dad. Life has become challenging and he needs help figuring it out in a safe place. Son needs love, affection, affirmation, encouragement, stability, sanity, safety and patient care. Dad needs son's devotion and doting attitude to build a solid and successful future together. Dad is a professional mentor, business owner, and life coach. How do I find this young man?

The problem we run into is that often the reason a houseboy is looking for a job is that they are not working and have no money so unless you are willing to help with travel they cannot afford to get to you. Normally I tell them I will reimburse them for any travel expenses once they arrive and all is good and everything they have told me is true. I made the mistake of sending $100 to Michael22 for gas money and of course he turned out to not only be a scammer, but using different names on different sites. On the "other" houseboy site he is Matthew Myers, on here he is Michael Dawson, which is the name he used at Western Union to pick up my money. Insist on seeing your boy on cam either on yahoo or skype or on your phone's facetime and get him to take a selfie in the bathroom mirror showing either a current newspaper or holding up his fingers a certain way so that he can't just send a pic off the internet of the guy he is using to fake who he is.

Hi, My name is Andy Im 21y.o, and I am in Baltimore Maryland, I am looking to relocate anywhere and become your new house boy, I will make a wonderful houseboy and much more. I will relocate anywhere

I've been a houseboy 3 times now, and I can tell you that there is no text book answer that can tell you what you should or shouldn't do that you don't already know. Now don't get me wrong, I've tried more than 3 positions, but I only stay where the situation is right for us both. It's not about knowing what to do to satisfy your host. As a houseboy (and many forget this), you just have to stay 100% true to yourself and don't just say "yeah, I could try doing that" if you're not really into it. No matter how great you think the offered position is, there is always a better one on the next page. Never try to change yourself to fit a houseboy position. Meeting the right host and finding the right houseboy position (and for hosts to find the perfect houseboy) is like a puzzle. No matter how close some pieces come to fitting in more than one position, you'll never have a complete result unless every single piece is in the right spot. Anything less than that and there will always be that pieces left out and even if you don't miss it, someone will. I guess if there was a text book answer, the text book itself should be your own heart.

I am a 29 year old American looking to be owned by an Older Man. I am sane, submissive, very skilled in culinary arts. I can maintain a clean household. Provide dinner every night, provide nanny services. I can be a public personal life assistant while secretly being owned and collared and at your service. Serious enquiries only. I have a passport and ready for immediate relocation. Thanks

Professional in mid forties looking for a house boy. You need to have a drivers license, be computer literate. I am a single father and need assistance with the kids upbringing, homework. Looking for a well educated/ well mannered guy, who is not just a pretty face. Ideal candidate also cooks. We have a house keeper who helps out with cleaning, laundry and some cooking too. The House Boy is mostly dedicated to daddies needs. A nice massage here and there, a work out together, foot rub or help with a stretch, grocery shopping, car washing. Personal Assistant with benefits is the best way to describe the job. You must fit into our lives and schedules and enjoy being told what to do. We live a very vibrant life with a lot of travel, you should also have a good passport as you will sometimes travel internationally with me. The right guy is passionate about life, curious about the world, interested in a family : healthy life style. get in touch and let's figure out if we are a match.

My roommate is moving to another city and has tried to set up a profile. He has been waiting over 2 weeks to be able to log in. He gets the “still being vetted” message when logging in. He got the confirmation link in an email and still not able to log in. He gets emails showing who is viewing his profile, upgrade options etc.. We have both tried to contact “the team” and I even “submitted a ticket” for assistance. Not a single response and no assistance or support has been provided.

So sorry we were down for a week (forums). We had issues with the files that needed to be on the server for the new version of the board software.

Thank you very much, you're very kind and I appreciate you taking the time out to not only read my post, but to respond as well. I also appreciate the heads up on the lack of engagement in the forums. I'll def keep that in mind. Looking forward to seeing what the site has in store for me though. God bless!

His address is the middle of park in Brooklyn SCAMMER

Recently it has started to work again, but is VERY slow in opening, but it is working. I would estimate about 5 minutes? I keep having hit the "wait" button.

DavidRoca62 FUCK YOU you're harassing me on here & email So listen up & read if you're literate No profile FUCK YOU no response to questions FUCK YOU so FUCK YOU we are NOT INTERESTED IN A SCAMMER FOR MONEY SO FUCK YOU

No one is taking you seriously since you still haven't made your profile public for everyone to see.

Handsomeboy4u is a scammer, don't fall for his stories. He's has multiple profiles in the past.

Is this true ?

With Mozilla Firefox, Microsoft Edge, and other browser platforms, there is an add-on application you can get generally called Reverse Image Search allowing you to RIGHT click on a photo and search for similar across numerous websites. A good 30% of the 'houseboys' on this website are FRAUDULENT - using someone else's photos OR claiming to be someone else. PLUS, IF you contact someone and they refuse to send additional photos - THAT'S a good indication that something's wrong!

Just a heads up. The new houseboy Marcel wouldn't give me his full name & birth date or show me a birth certificate to prove if he was real or not. The scammer went quick to cellphone texts along with he is currently leaving his boyfriend he lives with now cause he flirts with other guys. He still hasn't produced any facts if he is real.

Just a little update. Cutexxx admitted in chat that he is actually from "an African country" and is a scammer looking for money. After he finally admitted that he was indeed a scammer - he asked for money again. You have to give him credit for persistence.

Jim Nabors, the Hawaii resident well known for his starring role in the 1960s television sitcom "Gomer Pyle, USMC," married his longtime male partner early this month, he told Hawaii News Now Tuesday. Nabors, 82, said he married his companion of 38 years, Stan Cadwallader, who's 64, in Seattle on Jan. 15. Nabors declined an on-camera interview but spoke to Hawaii News Now by phone. "I'm 82 and he's in his 60s and so we've been together for 38 years and I'm not ashamed of people knowing, it's just that it was such a personal thing, I didn't tell anybody," Nabors said. "I'm very happy that I've had a partner of 38 years and I feel very blessed. And, what can I tell you, I'm just very happy." Nabors said he and Cadwallader traveled to Washington state, where gay marriages became legal in early December 2012. They were married at the Fairmont Olympic Hotel in Seattle. A judge performed the marriage ceremony in the privacy of their hotel room with a couple of friends who live down the street from them near Diamond Head as witnesses, Nabors said. http://www.hawaiinewsnow.com/story/20805642/exclusive-actor-jim-nabors-marries-his-longtime-male-partner

New to this site and hoping to find a good and trustworthy houseboy. We are a married couple, looking for a houseboy to assist us with house responsibilities while our work lives. The houseboy would assist with the property management business, so a modest wage will be provided, along with room/board. We live on the water in a beautiful area of the state with many parks and natural springs. We are hoping this site will provide us with great leads for houseboys willing to relocate and move to Florida. Inquire within for more information.

How r u

Supposedly the poster is his older sister but I have my doubts. The physical stats listed don’t match the previous ones on his profile from two years ago. “She” claims someone told her he’d been on this website a month ago. Almost exact same profile pic as was used couple years ago. I had a lot of off site conversations and phone calls with him. Personal opinion, I think he was a heavy drug user, unemployed, in and out of jail dead best who used his scamming skills to manipulate and con men in to helping him with sad story after sad story. And promises of wanting to be of service as a houseboy. Tracey City, TN is supposedly where he was from back then. Derrick Odear was the name he was going by. I’d not trust anything with whoever set up his current profile. Be it sister or him. You’ve been warned.

Said his name is Gabriel Jose. Asked me to send him bitcoin via cash app. When I told him NO he wanted me to send money via Zelle to Sleeperjames4@gmail.com The name on that account is James. Lots of lies coming out of him. Nothing is making sense. Says he wants to come here but refuses to talk on phone. Sometimes he texts wells and other times it sounds like he barely knows english.

I could care less who he really is or where he is. I’d have nothing to do with him. He’s a scumbag, a liar and a con artist. He’s still around just with a different profile name again. Beware

Two houseboys we recently wrote to indicated after a while that they were not in the locations they listed. One listed Florida but is actually in Iowa. In addition to this, a lot of houseboys don't update other items in their profiles. No one can force them to enter the correct information, but we just wanted to blow off a little steam. Best wishes to all you employers out there!

i've met several good men or couples thru the site, some that i've stayed in touch with even when things didn't work out between us. the site is very haphazardly administered, as an afterthought to the webcam porn portion of the site. and it's like most dating sites in the modern era, has lots of flakes, bots and picture collectors. but if you fill out your profile, chat with people, vet them, ask them practical questions, video chat them, get a background check etc, it's pretty obvious who is actually leaning into meeting and checking each other out. it's possible to meet good guys if the math of your competing but reasonable expectations works out. but it's a long shot. good luck.

Sorry for Crappy image quality but the file size limitations on here are ridiculous

I ama 21yr old, 5'10, 130 lbs., slim, hungry verse bottom boy. I currently live in SLC, Utah and am looking to relocate. I am real, can talk on the phone and send time-stamped pictures if you're interested. Feel free to ask me anything.

in addition to paying for their air fare , that they require BTA... Internet Financial Scams - US Embassy in London london.usembassy.gov/.../internet_... Embassy of the United States, London Beware of anyone who requests funds for a BTA, or Basic Travel Allowance, as a requirement to depart another country for the United States. There is no such thing as a BTA. In other cases, your Internet friend will claim to need a travel allowance, or travel money, to be able to travel to the United States. "Second only to flight money, the Basic Travel Allowance (BTA) is the scammers highest paying income. Also known as the Personal Travel Allowance, Travellers Allowance Fee, Travellers Assistance Fund, Travellers Assurance Fund and numerous other forms of “I have to have wodges of your cash or they won’t let me fly”. Let’s get this over with now … THERE IS NO SUCH THING any more, anywhere, it’s an online dating scam."

it's pretty wide open and based on who you're serving and what you negotiate. usually room & board, sometimes more if you're lucky or your master is wealthy. i've been given spending money, car access, gas money, airline tickets, entertainment, etc. some very generous only expecting me to work 20 hours a week and some less so expecting me to work well past 50. PS these forums are close to moribund so you may not get too many responses. i'm happy to chat offline if you have other questions or want help. good luck.

Last night, tinder14u called me with a sob story (hasn't eaten in days, living in car, etc.) and wanted me to send him money right away via Western Union so he could drive to my place. I said I would think about it and call him back. I Googled the name he gave me, Derrick Odear, and it came back with a link to a Houseboy forum from a few years ago where someone reported that name as a scammer. When I called him back and told him what I found, I was surprised when he didn't try to deny that he was the person in question. Instead he said, "Are you going to believe those guys?". When I said "yes" he hung up on me.

Hi we are a long term married couple looking for a house boy. This is a non sexual position and we are not looking for a sex kitten. My partner and I both are college educated, have very good jobs, and do well financially. My partner has ADHD and works a very high stress job as a market manager in retail. He struggles with keeping organized, making deadlines, and staying on top of things at home. Our lives can be a lot easier if we had someone competent to manage the house and keep him on track. We can work out all the details but your primary focus will be to manage our house and manage my partners life so he can stay focused on work. Specifically, keeping up with his very extensive daily schedule, ensuring he makes it to all his meetings, make all of his travel reservations and ensure he makes it where he needs to be, ensure that he is set up with his laptop, cellphone, keys, ipad, and everything he needs to walk out of the house with each morning. To sum it up we need someone to manage his days and send him occasional texts to keep him on track. His ADHD makes him a powerhouse in the retail word but hard to handle at home with the constant forgetfulness etc. If you don't know what this is please google it before contacting me. Also, please be able to pass as professional as he may use you occasionally to assist him with meetings etc if he has a lot going on, you'll need to help him keep track of the tiny details and make sure he doesn't miss a beat. We can offer free room and board (private room with a bathroom), a car (we are huge Mustang fans, so basically take your pic of what year and color from the garage), cell phone, and a salary that we will negotiate. Again we are not looking for anything sexual! To be a good fit you must be strong in planning, organizing, prioritizing, and following directions. Ideally we would like to find the right guy to have a long partnership that will turn into a family structure.

I just wanted to comment on a couple of the suggestions here so far... One is where an employer has been a member of the site for a while and it not taking more than 60 days to find a houseboy if they are serious. What about those of us who have actually found houseboys either through this site (or others), but may be looking for a new houseboy? Sometimes house boys don't work out and sometimes they move on to other things. Admittedly all but one that I have had worked out great, but I'm not going to close my account each time. There is also the suggestion of having employers pay $100 a month for membership. Apparently it never occurred to this house boy that not everything revolves around money. In some instances there may be cause for paying a houseboy, and in other instances, room/board, meals, travel and other entertainment (all which costs a lot to the employer) may be sufficient, depending upon the expectations and whatever agreement the employer and houseboy work out. Honestly, I laugh when I read that a houseboy expects things like; a salary, his own car, a computer and of course his room/board, meals, etc... That sounds more like something that should be a full-time job, and I have yet to find a houseboy that works 8 hours a day, 5 days a week! I do like the suggestion that maybe we, as adults, should police ourselves better. Maybe better warnings somehow to educate people that there are fakes, liars and scammers. It's a huge red flag to me when a potential houseboy wants me to send them money. They always have the excuse that they have a car and need money for gas. If I counter that I will buy them a plane ticket or even fly out to meet them where ever they are and help them drive to where I live (paying for expenses along the way), EVERY one of them will decline. I can't think of a legitimate reason why anyone would send someone money like that. If the houseboy is serious, he'll accept the plane ticket or bus ticket or even you going out to pick him up. Otherwise, he's just looking to scam you out of your money! As for those ads directing people to other sites, they should be reported and deleted. Maybe a delay from the time someone signs up on the site, to the time they can communicate with anyone on the site, would deter some of this.