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I've found a few houseboys from this site and they have worked out pretty well, so here's my two cents: First and foremost, I've found that you shouldn't expect sex to be part of the equation. If that's what you are wanting or expecting it's most likely gonna turn out badly. You've got someone staying at your place that might have no where else to go or no way to feed themselves. They are most likely in a desperate situation and if they had the means to pay their own rent or had family to help they wouldn't be looking to be a houseboy. Don't put him in the situation of feeling unsafe by even suggesting it's something on your mind. Also, if what you are truly wanting is someone to keep up the house, there may be little incentive to clean up if someone thinks they ar being kept around for sex. If sex is what you are expecting, then better to go look for someone explicitly wanting a sugar daddy and stop the pretense. To that end, one issue I have (and I've heard from friends who have used this site to find a houseboy) is that the profile pages are overly sexualized. When you look at a profile, the first thing you see is the "loads in mouth / loads in ass" with porn pics. What sort of expectations are we setting here from the start? Folks also don't like that when you set up a profile most of the questions want to know about dick size and sexual positions etc. Another complaint I have is I've wanted to upload pictures of the room I have here, the house, the view of the city, pics of the group of roommates that live at the house, etc. These are all things I'd imagine a potential houseboy would like to see. But the only thing we're allowed to show is a picture of ourselves. Again, setting the expectation that all he really would care about is "would I do" the employer. In my situation I think he'd be at least as interested in what his room looks like. As long as the site is geared towards sex being expected, don't be shocked that it attracts sketchy people. So here's my advice: 1- get rid of the "takes load in ass / mouth" graphic on the top of profiles. Super tacky. 2- allow pictures of folks houses, yards, households, room the houseboy will be living. 3- allow folks to opt out of the sex questions

More scam profiles.

I've been on here for a few months now, and I see people posting about scammers in here all the time. Tonight I was fortunate enough to encounter my first scammer, and I saw him coming from 200 miles away and I promptly told him "No way". Don't fall for the scammers games, guys. They message you out of the blue, tell you that you're cute and they like you and they want to come and be with you and do all of these unheard of sexual things to you... but wait... there's a catch: "I ran out of gas. I... I had a flat tire. I didn't have enough money for cab fare. My tux didn't come back from the cleaners. An old friend came in from out of town. Someone stole my car. There was an earthquake. A terrible flood. Locusts!" It sounds bad, I know... But, if you send them a few hundred dollars, the world will once again be righted and they will come directly to you and it will be nothing but sunshine and happiness until the end of time. DON'T DO IT! My rendition of what may happen is, clearly, overly dramatic and you can (hopefully) see that what I've laid out before you is a load of crap. The kids with the to-die-for sexy pictures who say they love you will not be as obvious. Regardless, you must resist them. If they truly are homeless, stranded, etc there are resources available to them who will help them: They can post on their local Craigslist for somewhere to crash for a few days. It will be much easier for them to get somewhere local (and at no cost to you, to boot!) than for you to give them money to fly/drive/bicycle to wherever you are. They can go to a shelter. There are 3,500+ shelters in the US. Some cater specifically to Youth -- some even to GLBT youth. (http://www.homelessshelterdirectory.org/) No car, no gas, pogo stick broken? No way to get to the shelter? They can call the local police. They will gladly take them to a shelter. Did their parents throw them out because they're gay? Call the local PFLAG office. They'll put 'em up for a few days and help them get back on their feet. (http://community.pflag.org/page.aspx?pid=256) You do not have to help them. Their predicament whether real, or most likely, a fictionalization is not your fault. They were like that when you found them, and they will be like that when you keep on walking. The above resources are available to them free of charge. Keep your money, buy yourself something pretty -- don't give it to them. Bottom line, please don't send them money. It's a trick. If it sounds too good to be true (i.e.: drop-dead gorgeous guy telling you that you're hotter than an oven on the sun, when you know good and well that you're an elderly bald man*, and he wants nothing more than to be snuggled up in your arms tonight.) it probably is. Common sense is the rule guys. * Nothing against elderly bald men, by the way. I just needed an example. Everyone is beautiful in their own way.

It's amazing how many boys live at 68-29 Main Street in Flushing NY

He added a fourth - all fake, all immediately want to go to google chat and want to come to you right way - they just need money. Doesn't even put any effort into it. Asks nothing expect when can you send him money.

Thank you so very much for posting this. I hope everyone reads your post and uses caution when contacting every boy.

Hi! I am from Pennsylvania, but I currently travel weekly for work. I am looking for a long term role where I can be a houseboy for someone (or someones’) who is very loving but also strict and dominant. I am imagining waking up at 5am (before you), cooking breakfast every day (passion for cooking) kissing you good morning, doing all the chores for most of the day, relaxing a little bit, and then cooking you dinner and pleasuring you in different ways every single night, with no off days. I would wear outfits you chose, follow a schedule and complete tasks that you command, and bend to your every whim in the bedroom. In return, I imagine I get free room (or low cost) and board and hopefully an allowance along with some free time to enjoy sightseeing and activities (non-sexual) outside of the home. I have extremely soft hands as well, tehe. I’m 5’6 140 lbs, Caucasian with blue eyes and brown hair. I am into being praised (“who’s a good boy?”) and generally pleasing however I can. I like a clean and proper environment, one with positivity and a focus on basic healthy activities! I’m very real, just nervous since this involves a lot of commitment, but I am looking around and hopefully you can be the one for me! I can’t add more pictures because of the file limit, but I can give more if needed.

And I have a feeling that they all have the same address in Flushing New York

always report each profile.

I think that many people on this site just treat this site like a regular porn site, versus dealing with real peoples lives. (I got to be first to admit there is a lot of eye candy on the site.) the only way to really fix this issue is that the owners of this website gets serious and make it to where people can meet and employ people who want to be employed!

No one pays relocation

With Mozilla Firefox, Microsoft Edge, and other browser platforms, there is an add-on application you can get generally called Reverse Image Search allowing you to RIGHT click on a photo and search for similar across numerous websites. A good 30% of the 'houseboys' on this website are FRAUDULENT - using someone else's photos OR claiming to be someone else. PLUS, IF you contact someone and they refuse to send additional photos - THAT'S a good indication that something's wrong!

Scammer be aware. Never replies to question, I'm talking basic simple info. Be careful

Go straight to videochat. I used to set up videochat after several email exchanges. But now I've learned to make it step #1. I met one guy who was completely genuine. He had no problem with video chat, liked the idea of seeing if I was for real too. Two other guys; One never showed up to the chat and I never heard from him again The other pretended to have no access to any device capable of videochat (you can do it for free at the library if you really have a 27 year old phone with no camera like you say). Dont waste your time on the scammers and players. Filter them out from the start.

Before I paid to relocate someone there would be extensive chats about expectations online, then I would visit them to see if everything's a good fit. If that's the case then I'd personally relocate them.

Ggood-looking Boca Raton Florida couple looking for house point to come and enjoy our lives with us. must love dogs we have three and also must take care of the house and the dogs. The only wrong business so there is opportunity for extra work. we are too nice guys and both looking. Occasional friend would be fine too but really looking for someone to live with us send email or text

This site seems to be just full of scammers! I have talked to four guys and all just want money or scams. It's so bad one guy had two profiles and forgot he was talking to me on both! Not sure this site is worth the time or energy! BEWARE!

Be careful!!! desparation is not attractive to serious houseboys or employers. Desparation is a sign that you are unable to manage your situation, and draws scammers and fakes who may want to take advantage of you. worse, serious employers see desparation as a red flag, often indicating the houseboy is himself a scammer. Be VERY careful as this word and Post is a red flag!!! And NOT the type of red flag that guides an airplane to the landing strip.

Not retired. Still producing and acting.

TIRED OF GOING IT ALONE? Strong Dad figure looking for son who realizes he NEEDS his Dad. Life has become challenging and he needs help figuring it out in a safe place. Son needs love, affection, affirmation, encouragement, stability, sanity, safety and patient care. Dad needs son's devotion and doting attitude to build a solid and successful future together. Dad is a professional mentor, business owner, and life coach. How do I find this young man?

The problem we run into is that often the reason a houseboy is looking for a job is that they are not working and have no money so unless you are willing to help with travel they cannot afford to get to you. Normally I tell them I will reimburse them for any travel expenses once they arrive and all is good and everything they have told me is true. I made the mistake of sending $100 to Michael22 for gas money and of course he turned out to not only be a scammer, but using different names on different sites. On the "other" houseboy site he is Matthew Myers, on here he is Michael Dawson, which is the name he used at Western Union to pick up my money. Insist on seeing your boy on cam either on yahoo or skype or on your phone's facetime and get him to take a selfie in the bathroom mirror showing either a current newspaper or holding up his fingers a certain way so that he can't just send a pic off the internet of the guy he is using to fake who he is.

Hi, My name is Andy Im 21y.o, and I am in Baltimore Maryland, I am looking to relocate anywhere and become your new house boy, I will make a wonderful houseboy and much more. I will relocate anywhere

I've been a houseboy 3 times now, and I can tell you that there is no text book answer that can tell you what you should or shouldn't do that you don't already know. Now don't get me wrong, I've tried more than 3 positions, but I only stay where the situation is right for us both. It's not about knowing what to do to satisfy your host. As a houseboy (and many forget this), you just have to stay 100% true to yourself and don't just say "yeah, I could try doing that" if you're not really into it. No matter how great you think the offered position is, there is always a better one on the next page. Never try to change yourself to fit a houseboy position. Meeting the right host and finding the right houseboy position (and for hosts to find the perfect houseboy) is like a puzzle. No matter how close some pieces come to fitting in more than one position, you'll never have a complete result unless every single piece is in the right spot. Anything less than that and there will always be that pieces left out and even if you don't miss it, someone will. I guess if there was a text book answer, the text book itself should be your own heart.

Hello! I’m looking for a live in either permanent or part time work position. I can cook and clean. Prefer someone who is more of a dominant master than just an employer. If you are real feel free to message me I can FaceTime and have more photos.

We have had 3 long successful term Houseboys and while every situation and agreement is different I pay what the national average is listed for an Au Pair. Here in the US it's roughly $200 per week, then give them room/board and cover any travel that they do with us or meals out. We do not cover phone expenses or auto expenses. Any food request we are usually happy to accommodate. When meeting someone for the first time we will not pay any money up front but we will reimburse them for travel to us. We do this because of all of the scammers. ABSOLUTELY NO MONEY BEFORE WE MEET THEM! I tell everyone one of them this upfront and at some point most of them ask for money. They love to ask to pay for a ticket then send them money for incidentals like meals even when they are only an hour away. It's all a big scam and this site in particular has gotten very very bad. There is a lack of Moderation. Good Luck

Seeking a houseboy who will relocate too Knoxville, Tennessee. You must be age 18 to 30 & in shape & athletic. Prefer smooth bods. You will do all grunt household cleaning chores totally nude. This is for someone who is naturally masculine but obedient & is great at giving oral service & into being dominated & disciplined. You will be required to have a job outside the home, preferably nights & weekends, or that you can do remotely from home, to bring in income to pay for your room & board, but also do all household chores weekdays regularly longterm as a true longterm lifestyle as a choreboy servantboy. This is not just a mere game or roleplay or hookup or fantasy. You must be honest, truthful, trustworthy, faithful, loyal, dependable, & reliable, never flaky or sketchy. Any race considered. Prefer you have a cleancut haircut & no facial hair & shaved or waxed pubes, with no tats or piercings. Absolutely no smoking of anything & no drugs of any kind allowed. Moderate drinking ok, but never to excess. Present or former college athletes or fratboys encouraged to apply. I'm a naturally dominant man, bi, deep in closet, totally discreet, & completely downlow. You will call me Sir at all times out of absolute respect & will do all chores totally naked as well as providing sexual service & worship. You must be dedicated to pleasing me in every way. You will be totally responsible for the maintenance of a large home in a nice country club setting. One of the perks will be use of a home gym & hot tub & sauna you will set up. You might recruit others to help you with regular deep cleaning that will be necessary. You must be good at all indoor & outdoor chores & be open to being punished if you don''t do them to my satisfaction. Send me a private message with your name, email address, cell number, location, age, height, weight, current face closeup, & full frontal & full rear full length full nudes if you are interested & ready to eagerly begin this opportunity as soon as possible, & tell me all about yourself & why you should be who I should select. Include your political views & religious beliefs, as well as what family you have & where, & what education you have & from where, as well as what experience you have & what kinks turn you on & off. True Dom Dad Sir here who is ready to bond with a young & enthusiastic adult houseboy that will appreciate having a safe, secure place to life & thrive.

Hey there I am looking for a houseboy, Would include room and board use of an automobile, and a nice salary. Duties will include light cleaning companionship and travel

Hello, 28 yo in San Diego, CA seeking to become a houseboy. Ideally looking for a long-term role with someone who is clean and trustworthy. I am ok with couples. I am looking to come to you (room & board) and am open for allowance also. I enjoy a wide range of activities both in-home and outdoors (hiking, movies, sightseeing) and consider myself friendly and respectful. For room and board I am open to help you around the home and experienced in gardening and pool/house maintenance. I am good looking, fun, charismatic, and health oriented, and prefer similar personalities. My stats are 5'10 150# asian/blk/wht mix. I am open to intimacy if chemistry is right. Feel free to message me for cell/email for photos and further details. Thanks

I am a 29 year old American looking to be owned by an Older Man. I am sane, submissive, very skilled in culinary arts. I can maintain a clean household. Provide dinner every night, provide nanny services. I can be a public personal life assistant while secretly being owned and collared and at your service. Serious enquiries only. I have a passport and ready for immediate relocation. Thanks

The server is failing here. the ability to get in to log in has corrupted boot in instructions. I found you can get in this way you will get an email from HB saying MEMBERS VIEWED YOUR PROFILE open that click on one of the names that should get you in it seems to work from there.

So sorry we were down for a week (forums). We had issues with the files that needed to be on the server for the new version of the board software.

His address is the middle of park in Brooklyn SCAMMER

Recently it has started to work again, but is VERY slow in opening, but it is working. I would estimate about 5 minutes? I keep having hit the "wait" button.

No one is taking you seriously since you still haven't made your profile public for everyone to see.

Is this true ?

Hey guys, stop-ya-bitchin, This site is ancient, it's likely there's not much staff, probably only one person who's aged out of current web tools. Instead of complaining, offer to volunteer some of your time and know how to help improve the site. It's obvious he(?) Needs help. Should your offer be refused, that's when the bitchin is appropriate.

That is very true. so I have to believe that there are people actually doing that.

BEWARE of HotStud4U. Please check out other topics in the Forum about him and other scammers before you interview someone.

How r u

I can only go by my experience with him, if he was honest there wouldn't have been an issue. Also, you're not aware of our conversation. I respect your opinion and advice but again I can only refer to my personal experience.

Supposedly the poster is his older sister but I have my doubts. The physical stats listed don’t match the previous ones on his profile from two years ago. “She” claims someone told her he’d been on this website a month ago. Almost exact same profile pic as was used couple years ago. I had a lot of off site conversations and phone calls with him. Personal opinion, I think he was a heavy drug user, unemployed, in and out of jail dead best who used his scamming skills to manipulate and con men in to helping him with sad story after sad story. And promises of wanting to be of service as a houseboy. Tracey City, TN is supposedly where he was from back then. Derrick Odear was the name he was going by. I’d not trust anything with whoever set up his current profile. Be it sister or him. You’ve been warned.

Three new scam artists with fake profiles houseboys.Steer clear, don’t waste your time. 1. HonestMentor 2. Pukky021 3. blowngerick If you wish details then pm me on the main website and I can email you what I discovered. Dont let a few rotten apples spoil the barrel. Good luck to you all.

Two houseboys we recently wrote to indicated after a while that they were not in the locations they listed. One listed Florida but is actually in Iowa. In addition to this, a lot of houseboys don't update other items in their profiles. No one can force them to enter the correct information, but we just wanted to blow off a little steam. Best wishes to all you employers out there!

see maxdyer23 and maxdyer24.

Totally agree, a scammer. His lease is up, truck is packed, needs gas money, shames you if you balk, then knows you were just bs! Remember the number O N E RULE. DO NOT SEND MONEY. !!!! REGARDLESS WHAT iS SAID. He is good, he is convincing, he is good at shaming, he is a. S C A M M E R !!!!!!

Sorry for Crappy image quality but the file size limitations on here are ridiculous

I ama 21yr old, 5'10, 130 lbs., slim, hungry verse bottom boy. I currently live in SLC, Utah and am looking to relocate. I am real, can talk on the phone and send time-stamped pictures if you're interested. Feel free to ask me anything.

hey guy ! i live in France (if you re not in france, U can learn french after there s not a problem if you re relocatable) 100% top, hiv- , and have needs : a 100% bottom real houseboy man who s naked at home i don't seek a money slave, but i m "hyper" top needs fuck my boy many times by days every days for real lifestyle i ll prefere young man beacause not pollued by anothers masters needs but s not a problem if your mind is clean i ll prefere an europeen guy (no need papers or card) i ll seek real owned slave for 1 to 1 for a permanent 24/7/365 and exclusive with 2 options (have or not a social life) Real 1 to 1, so : no website sex connexion, no 3th man, no gay party, i m real top (5 to 10 by days, even after 10 years) - i can cum in ass 3 time before have pause, and all night i sleep and stay in your ass (so need a real bottom man) and need a real houseboy (wash cock sex ec... every days every years) even many years i m never tired of my boy so, ready o be mine?

No, it's perfectly reasonable for them to expect you to pay for them to get to you. You're the employer, so you ought to be the one with the ability to provide transportation. Now, that doesn't mean that you necessarily need to purchase a plane ticket. It's also reasonable for you to travel to their current city and interview them, possibly providing other transportation back. Put yourself in their shoes. If you were looking at employment at a startup company (which is what you effectively are), you'd expect them to buy a round-trip ticket for you (or travel to you) if they wanted to conduct an in-person interview. And it doesn't inspire much confidence that you'd be there for very long or that it's a worthwhile company to work for, if they're not willing to spend money to find and hire the right people. As the employer, you have the financial upper hand. You ought to demonstrate this by being willing to pay for their expenses. But, as always, remember the forum warning: NEVER send money directly to them. Those requests are almost certainly scams.

Hi. Great site. Lots to like including how much proactivity there is in protecting the site from abuse. Im new here (4 days now). Employer looking for a houseboy. One thing that would help in the search is an easily accessible button on the search results that makes it possible to hide a profile. The idea is that when you run across a profile that wouldn't work, for example, distant state and not willing to lreocate, you could just click off that one and reduce the results to profiles you havn't looked at yet. Its complementary to the existing "save profile" feature. When I look at profiles, they fall into three categories, 1) Send msg now or save, 2) Rule out, 3) possibly revisit later. The "hide" helps with #2, Save with #1, and the rest end up in catagory 3. THanks -E