Personally, I would never throw someone out if they gained weight, stopped going to the gym, etc.... I don't work that way. I had a Houseboy for 5 years and paid for his education while he was in my employ. Granted he loved Fat Men so, that is why he answered my ad to start with but he gained weight, got older but only left as, he received his MBA and moved on (which is what I expected would happen). I personally am not into the whole "physical looks" idea. I look more for a great personality, someone that does have a few issues in their life (as let's face it we all do) and likes to live life based on life itself and not drugs. Poppers are okay with me. :-)
All in all, I want a person that would be a good friend and confidant and that occasional tryst in bed, Hell, I would even pay "combat" pay for that arena. Also, honesty is a key issue, as I always say if you need something just ask. I doubt I'll say no, so don't feel as though you have to rob me. Just ask.
Not sure where I am going with all of this as my mind has many thoughts running through it...
All in all, I would just like to find a nice guy who would be my Houseboy and if I have to pay more for it, so what. It's basically just money and that you can't take with you. So might as well pay for it all but definitely not the drugs or attitude. Life is short, so I'd rather enjoy it.
Just my opinion of course.
And on the main site my profile is under Small_Endowment look me up if your a houseboy who needs a good job with benefits (and not just the sexual ones)