this topic is very intresting. Im wondering how employers expect a houseboy to meet them if they arent willing to pay travel and expenses. If an employer doesnt want to risk sending money then why not travel to the houseboy instead of the houseboy traveling to you. That way you could get a room/ have dinner..talk etc..and see that the houseboy is actually a real person?
I dont know its just a thought. This is all new to me but as I search for employers and read some houseboys profiles as well its starting to seem like a slutty version of the dating apps that are already out on smartphones and over the internet lol. So far I have only chatted with ONE of the 20+ guys who viewed my profile or have sent me messages that seems genuine and a nice guy.