jaglet

I realize I am commenting on a thread that is basically dead (much like this entire site seems to be with barely even a dozen visitors per day) but...I got my very first wink today and I opened the "form letter" that I received announcing the wink...and this is part of the text in that letter "Check out his profile and perhaps a wink will turn into a touch, fondle, or even a fuck." It's really hard to take this site seriously with mess like that. I get that the sexual aspect of this site is a key factor in how many relationships form here (not that I am convinced many do form) but seriously...phrases and terminology like that are simply crass and juvenile. I think when someone receives a wink the instinct is going to be that they are going to look at the associated profile anyway, and shouldn't need to be instructed to do so, and certainly not in that manner. That kind of crap is probably what results in the traffic and participation on this site dwindling as it apparently has from viewing the forum and previous traffic reports. In addition I suspect that's what attracts those fakes and no-class scammers that I see many complaints about. You wanna present something without a level of respect, then that's what you are going to get in return. I'm hardly a prude and certainly wouldn't be here if I were one, but there is quite a bit that should be revised here if there is any intention of keeping this site alive. It truly should be a highly successful venture, but the traffic count doesn't leave much hope for anyone expecting to find legit employment through here. Anyway, I'm honestly not here to whine or complain, but I had remembered reading this thread (and others a few weeks ago) and how I felt when I received that "wink" notification seemed to coincide with how others felt regarding the way certain things are presented around here and I couldn't help but chime in...even though this is an old thread and it appears there may be all but 5 people who regularly even peek in here

There's no way to really answer that question, as it all depends on what potential employer may be present and active here that you appeal to. There's a place for everyone, it's simply a matter of being in "the right place at the right time" so to speak. All you can do is present yourself to the best of your ability in your profile and see what happens. Your profile and your pics are your "resume", and as we all know even the best resume isn't going to guarantee we ever end up at the top of the heap on any hiring individual's desk. There are no guarantees for anyone here, not even the cliched houseboys.

I would absolutely consider it since it's been on the list of my dream places to visit, but of course it would just depend on the situation. The main thing that would hold me back is lack of a passport and the time it may potentially require to get one. Also considering I am in the deep south of the U.S. travel would be somewhat expensive, possibly making me less desirable for an employer in Canada, but personally I would jump at any legitimate chance where the details were mutually agreeable.

This forum itself gets next to no traffic. If you check the stats for the site you will see daily traffic is substantially low as well. All that being said, you kinda can't expect the chatroom to be booming with activity when the more common and easily accessible features are collecting dust, and in a need of a houseboy to tend them