LovingOver50

Here I am, an incredibly qualified well preserved man in my 50s who has been looking for a suitable live in gig in Southern California for YEARS.... And despite the legions of older single gay men in this region, many of which I am certain have large homes that they either do not wish to leave, or faced with modern ironic yet endemic financial infeasibility of leaving, but are overwhelmed with trying to take care of the place themselves, I am still unable to find anyone willing to even interview me! I have been a private meal service chef and an events producer in the city of Los Angeles for over 20 years. I own my own vehicle free and clear. I have no debt. I am in a long term stable living situation but I want to trade up. I am not financially destitute. I have never been a drinker or a drug user. Most importantly, I keep an amazing home. There simply HAS to be at least ONE man in Southern California who sees exponentially more value in considering a live in gig with someone like me, who is literally bursting with marketable skills, then in some dopey cum fountain who reads at a seventh grade level who will do nothing for them but satisfy their dwindling sex drive, be high all the time, and possibly foist an endless panoply of drama upon them. I have literally been on this site for over ten years. I knew my value then, and I still know it (and in many ways it has increased). Are there ANY California dwelling independent critical thinkers on here born between 1947 and 1965 who have taken ten minutes to consider what it might mean for them to grow older in place without anyone to share their household responsibilities with? If that is you, I would consider dropping me a message. Bill

Hello I posted this same message back in 2014 and nobody bit, so I'm posting it again. In fact, Im hardly going to edit it to demonstrate how crystal clear my vision of what I am looking for is. I am looking for a live in houseman/butler position with a man or couple who wants a long term highly professional low drama arrangement with a strong capable independent man who knows what he is doing. Sexual benefits, while not out of the question, should not be your primary consideration. I am a man of a certain age after all. Please see my profile for a showcase of my vast battery of skills (getting vaster daily, not the leas of which is delicious daily cooking for maximum wellness. I have other income, other work, a car, and no debts. Los Angeles preferred. Palm Springs and San Diego will be considered.

Hello I know it's a long shot, but I am looking for a live in houseman/butler position with a man or couple who wants a long term highly professional low drama arrangement with a strong capable man who knows what he is doing. Sexual benefits, while not out of the question, should not be your primary consideration. Please see my profile for a showcase of my vast battery of skills. I have other income, other work, a car, and no debts. Local strongly preferred. If relocation is expected, the incentives must be extensive. Only honest, clean, grounded, communicative, amiable, and SOPHISTICATED employers who offer fair compensation for good work will be considered. In other words, NO CRAZIES! My name on this site is aptly, COMPETENT Thanks