DJHJD

Not getting anything. Send a message to my profile.

Same profile name?

Do you have a profile on the main site? I'm not finding you...

He just sent me a message today

Found your profile and sent you a message.

If you don’t have a profile on the main site, you’ll get more from that. Where are you located?

Jamal has yet another profile photo, which is clearly not the same person as his previous photos.

Where in Texas are you? You don’t seem to have a profile on the main site...

Hey there - another scammer, Jamal. Profile says he's in Seattle. Other members have had him tell them that he's from New York or Qatar. Don't give him your phone number or email address. Told me he's suffering from typhoid, which is as scary as Covid-19. Hasn't asked me for money before I blocked him, but feel certain that he's hit up others for cash.

I've been talking to him too. (Jamal) He told me that he's suffering from Typhoid. In SEATTLE? Seriously? I had pegged him as a scammer, but it's great to see others sharing their experiences with him.

Hasn't worked for me for more than a year - four different browers and three different devices.

A lazy con artist, though. Evidence: Lives in Atlanta, no, New York, well, visiting Atlanta but going home tomorrow No requirements, no back story, doesn't want to talk about himself Two photos, both distant, phone camera is broken and he has no other photos Profile says "no" to relocation, but is hitting up employers outside his area. "Oh, I need to change that" Profile says "I want someone to cook for me" but says "I like to do the cooking" in conversation I cut him off before he had a chance to ask for money. Be wary when talking to potential housemates - everyone has a back story, everyone has photos of themselves, discrepancies mean that they aren't telling you the truth.

Jason4u - profile says he's in Houston, he reports he's actually in Dallas. Be prepared that, after a few minutes of conversation, he's going to ask you to send him money.

Toomuchmike - do you have a profile on this site? If so, what's your profile name?

No. Just expense and disappointment.

He got me too; same story he gave Buck.

There are so many of these scammer profiles on peacekeeping missions, they could form up a brigade!!

There was one on another site the other day that had copied/pasted "his" profile from a M4F site - looking for a "lady". Hilarious. Bad scammers. A few weeks ago, I started telling the scammers that were on a "peacekeeping" mission that there were so many of them that were gay on these limited "peacekeeping" missions - were there gay bars for them? Did they all hang out? Why, it's almost like a gay army!

Thanks, Buck!

The best we can do is filter for scammer commonalities, ask specific questions, insist on answers, and send no money at all.

It is my opinion, and interpretation of my own experiences, that many or most of the young men offering their services on here are primarily looking for one of three things - free housing, free money, or "being spoiled." They are universally, none of them, ready to actually perform services that would make their presence in one's home worthwhile. I have negotiated with four house boy candidates thus far who have showed up for a trial run; none were successful. I have negotiated with another five, each of whom I had a similar experience in sending them money to travel here, airline tickets, etc., and they each of them took the money and "ran" in an internet ghosting sense. All five maintain active profiles on this site. There are some who are very appealing, but reject my interest because I don't meet their particular BDSM or role play needs. I believe that one of the first questions that must be answered by a prospective houseboy must be what their current housing situation is. Many of these lads are homeless, or about to be. If a prospective houseboy will not clearly answer this question, one should move on to other candidates regardless of how pretty his pictures are.

Can't say I'm surprised; done it several times myself. One just has to establish the amount of money one is willing to gamble, knowing that there is a very high probability that nothing will come of it.

Eastern European. As I recall, he's not in the USA. Another quick, two message conversation and then silence.

I heard from these folks or someone like them several years ago.

His profile is using that Flushing NY address that is generally associated with scammers. Flushing is part of Queens. He's telling you he's in Rochester several hundred miles away.