Be careful!!!
desparation is not attractive to serious houseboys or employers.
Desparation is a sign that you are unable to manage your situation, and draws scammers and fakes who may want to take advantage of you.
worse, serious employers see desparation as a red flag, often indicating the houseboy is himself a scammer.
Be VERY careful as this word and Post is a red flag!!! And NOT the type of red flag that guides an airplane to the landing strip.