Buck52

Single masculine Dad type on a serious search for a live in boy to be my housemate, companion, friend, housekeeper, cook and sexual partner. Rural but not isolated. Safe, secure, healthy, drama free, easy living environment. For more info check out my profile on the main website. Serious inquires only please. Jsyk I’m pretty damn good at vetting fakes and scammers.

Hey Paulwill, sorry to learn that. Were you able to report him before he blocked you?

HAHAHAHA, man thats a good one. You know, I swear there’s a scammer’s guide book these scum bags use because they all pretty much read the same, word for word. Sad fact of the matter is trying to get the folks who run this website to kick the scum to the curb instead of allowing them to continue their destructive behavior here on the website.

Those are screen shots of his original profile before he modified it to match the fake pics he started using he found on the internet.

4playmikey is one of the new members here but is a total sham, fake, time waster. Had the “dis”pleasure of wasting time with this guy who came across ver appealing and convincing at first. All seemed to be progressing well with texting and a phone call in efforts to get better acquainted. That’s until he decided to share a few photos, same ones he has in his profile. Well they aren’t his. That’s the reason why he states in his profile NOT to ask for any more photos. Because he can’t find anymore off the internet that look like the same guy. The second big eye opener is that from his original profile to his newly revised profile he has gone from 19 to 18 years old. His dick has grown from a cut, average, 6” to an uncut, thick, 8.5”(Will miracles never cease huh). He’s switched from versatile to a versatile bottom which is no big deal. Oh and one more thing I suppose he overlooked. His original profile stated NO piercings or tattoos. His revised one has one piercing. Oops, he didn’t spot the nipple piercing in the stolen, fake photo he started using. Oh well, young-n-dumb. He has an iPhone but will use one of those messaging apps to text you. Has at least two email accounts he used to email initially. Claims he just graduated high school and was on the swim team. Parents supposedly kicked him out when he was 14-15 after coming out gay. Says lives with an aunt in Santa Clairita, CA. Goes by the name Mike Harlow. Save yourself the time and trouble. Unable to report him due to him blocking me unexpectedly. I’m sure it was because he saw I had visited his profile after he had so ridiculously modified it. I was blocked within an hour after I’d visited it. Of course he unexpectedly block my phone number as well. So I hope the website moderator will view this and unplug one more bad apple from our website here. Good luck to everyone. Stay safe.

House boys take note. This is service at its best.

I just did a search for your profile on the main site and found none. I politely suggest you set up a profile so that you might be discovered and offered a position with a suitable employer. This is just a forum. No email addresses, phone numbers or other contact info is allowed on this public forum. That can be done on the main site after you set up a profile. I’d like for you to contact me there if you’re interested. Helpful tip, “verify” your profile after you’ve made one. Just go to your “my account” and find verify profile. Simple, quick and free. Plus you get 25 free messages a day instead of just 5. Good luck.

Same here my friend. I really want and need some help around here and definitely can use some friendly companionship. Sex would be icing on top. But like you I’m a senior, 67, so have been isolating couple weeks now. If I had a way to safely isolate a young recruit here for a couple of weeks I’d do it. But the risk of the unknown is too great for me to chance it. Had preplanned for a great potential houseboy to come for a short meet and greet stay for three days last Thursday until this Chinese virus shit hit the fan. Everything is on hold now. Feel worse for the young man who was coming. He really was in need of a safe and dependable living environment. Such is life. I’m convinced if we ALL practice what the officials keep telling us then the sooner this disaster will end and we can start putting the pieces back together. Good luck everyone.

Derrick Odear, aka, r3ady2bstabl3, is one of the latest thugs to soil our website with his conning lies and decent and who should be avoided like the plague unless you like having someone con you out of your hard earned money. He’s slick as they come, had me going for a while with his academy award nominated performance. Using my common sense and relying on my gut feelings I did a little simple background checking on him, googled his name, Derrick Odear, supposedly from Tracy City, TN. Believe it or not google pulled up an old houseboy forum post from August 2012 talking about his scamming activities. He’s also got a wrap sheet, jail time and a likely druggy. And he’s still at it with your typical poor me I’m on my last leg stories of being kicked out, homeless, no job, no money, hadn’t eaten in two days, blah blah blah. Anyway enough said. He’s a crafty one. You’ve been warned.

Thanks for the heads up with this scum bag. He’s Jackson2u, I just checked and he’s still operating on the home site. Were you able to report him? Also I think it would get much more exposure if you start a new post with his name and an appropriate adjective to go with it. Use the forum “Houseboys” instead of this one. It’s gets a lot more exposure. Again thanks for letting us know. First time I read over his profile after he first appeared I knew he was a fraud.

Yes I think we all know there are crooked employers trolling the website just like there are crooked houseboys. I do believe there are a lot more of each who are not though. Then there are those I think who are here just for the fantasy of being a houseboy with no real intention of actually wanting to be a houseboy. If you think you’ve run across an employer that is trying to scam or is a fake then by all means report them and post a message in the forum as well if you want. I’m not here to be the scammer police and wish I never had to report anyone. But I’ll damn sure do so when I discover one in hopes someone else won’t be victimized. Good luck to everyone and keep on searching.

Thanks for letting us know.

Geez ceman554 I’m sorry you had that crappy experience. Hopefully it was only your time that you lost with that loser. Keep on trying. There’s plenty good boys out there along with plenty of the rotten apples. May you learn from mistakes and move full steam ahead with a positive attitude. I know, it’s not easy but don’t give up. I too have had my fair share of setbacks.

Needylad is latest fake, fraud, con I’ve run across here. If you want details you can pm me. I’m not divulging what gave him(her?) away so not to help the enemy learn from their mistakes. Good luck hunting to everyone.

Thanks for the tip. A lot of us are guilty (if you wish to call it that) of taking a gamble on someone here, myself included, with results that are more than disappointing. I’m curious if you purchased a non-refundable bus ticket or not? As I understand your post he used the ticket but went elsewhere on it, a different destination?

You’re most welcome.

I just took a look at your profile and all looks good to me. Does your question about not being “allowed to message anyone anymore” mean that you’ve reached your daily limit of I think five? That is frustrating. My advice is to “verify” your profile on the main site. Go to “your account” and click on “verify”. Once you are verified I think you are allowed unlimited daily messages. At least I think it still works that way, been a long time for me. Not to mention you’ll get more interest having been verified so that a big plus for ya. If you continue to have trouble shoot a message to the help desk. Best of luck to ya.

Yeah he fed me a colorful back story too about having to move from Rhode Island at age 6 to Sweden then dad dies, mom treats him like trash, moved back to US five years ago to live with aunt in Ohio. Bar tends. Claims he’s 21 turning 22 on his birthday in March. Only problem was he gave me his actual birthdate which clearly shows he will turn 23 on his March birthday! Lol! You can’t make this hilarious shit up. Oh and has no way to face time live video chat. Yeah RIGHT!

I hope you were able to report him before blocking. What I’ve started doing is once they’ve revealed their true motive I immediately report them, then block them, then enter their name here in a headline as a fraud then let them know the jig is up, that they are busted, blocked, reported and headlines as a scam in the forum in case they’d like to look. That’s all we can do. But report them before letting them know you’re on to them so they won’t block you and then you can’t report them.

Another one of the latest frauds, scammers that I’ve recently engaged with. I’m no longer listing the reasons I know, here in the forum, is that I’m not going to lend help to the enemy by providing them with reasons why they got busted so that they can avoid those and get better at their craft. Pm me on the main site if you want particulars. Try to remember that once you know they are fakes or scammers or whatever it’s best to not let them on that they are busted until you’ve reported them on the website (scroll to bottom of their profile), then block them, make a new post here with their profile name in the header and THEN let them know they are busted. Yes, it’s likely they will continue to have their profile up for reasons I don’t understand but it will do some good even if they aren’t removed from the site. Good luck to everyone and keep on searching.

Noted and thanks northcalguys. I’ve decided to no longer list the reason(s) why I know someone is a fraudster, con, fake, flake or scammer because I’m not clueing them or anyone else that plays that game on their mistakes and how to avoid them. It’s sufficient just to start a new topic with their name headlined as to what they are. Let’s not help the enemy anymore.