BlackOnTop

A good person would look at a profile, see the person is asking the wrong things, and move on. When a guy looks at a profile and realizes he can’t live up to what is being asked, if that makes him then decide that’s a reason to scam someone, that only happens if the guy simply is a scammer. In dating, when looking for (real) jobs, even when shopping, life will present you with things that don’t line up with what you want. If you’re a halfway decent person, that will prompt you to move on. It’s only if you’re a scamming piece of trash when your response to something you don’t like is to be trash. Remember, the word “boy” in houseboy doesn’t mean you’re a child. You’re a grown man that needs another man to provide for you in a way you can’t. Keep justifying the scammers and wonder why suddenly being young and cute isn’t good enough to even be a houseboy anymore… blame this on the men that are trying to give you a free ride, because that’s going to make men want to support you. No wonder more and more employers are seeking past houseboys my age and up.

I’m surprised the site admins let you post that you’re using their site to find clients looking for houseboys. Most guys know the reason sites like this are falling behind is because being a houseboy or looking for that dad/son relationship is mainstream now, so there is little need for sites like this. They just go on regular dating sites and apps, state in their profile they’re looking to be a houseboy or looking to have a houseboy, and they meet from there. You can even go on social media groups to find houseboys. Those sites are better monitored than old school outdated sites like this which have to make their money from ad revenue rather than actual usage. Most of the people that truly use sites like this now are us that have been here from the early days that just want to hold on to the memory of what sites like this used to be. Also, how would you get paid? Who would pay you after finding a guy? What will you do if they don’t pay, repossess a boy? How much are these boys paying you to be placed? What systems do you have and what background checks are you doing to know these boys are legit? How exactly do you have a supply of boys to sell? You’d have to have some sort of website to take legit secure payments, or are you using one of those person to person apps? What country is your business registered, or do you just sell boys as a side hustle? How would anyone know the boy you send won’t just be in on this (or just be you) who will show up just long enough to get the money transferred and then disappear? Seems fishy at best.

When you think about it, the same can be said about employers. A man that has it all that come on a site like this to find a mate; there’s a reason a guy with so much to offer can’t find that match on a regular dating app. However, you just have to be honest about it. Do you really want to deal with an addict or recovering addict? Not all houseboys have issues like that. There are plenty on here like me that have never even touched a cigarette and have never burned bridges to the point that I had to be homeless. Again, it might just be someone that truly enjoys being of service to a deserving and hardworking man. I still miss that part about being a houseboy so much so that I visit one of my past employers every time a twink leaves him high and dry so I can enjoy a week or two of being there for him. So, don’t settle for the idea that a guy is a houseboy only because he has issues. Put in the effort to say no to that cute guy that comes with issues that you’d rather not deal with so you’ll have room for that amazing guy that just wants to be there for someone. He’s out there, just don’t settle.

Try going after something other than twinks. When I was a houseboy, I was the guy that was called in when guys got tired of the boys that weren’t much more than a cute paperweight. If you are attracted to the boys that stand out because of how much they’re selling their looks, don’t be surprised if you end up with guys that aren’t much more than… well, their looks. By the way, if anyone reading this sends money to guys because they’re too cute to be a scam, I have some oceanfront property in Kansas you should invest in… It is sad that a red flag is a guy wanting to be honest and of service. Some guys are just submissive and don’t admit it until they’ve done everything in life they were “supposed” to do but still couldn’t deny who they really wanted to be. It’s not unheard of; isn’t that the reason half of you gay employers have ex wives and grown children? Anyhow, that’s what I loved finding in “employers”, the men that had to be the leaders at work but were sub lovers behind closed doors. Those sub boys have to support themselves before they find the right guy to submit to. Yes, it’s true that some sub men, whether younger or older, have degrees. The difference is those guys never asked me for money. Also, while I’m not skinny, I too purposely list my weight as high as a site or app lets me, but I always note in my profile that I do it because it makes the shallow guys accidentally filter me out of their searches. When I started doing that here (when I was a houseboy), I stopped getting bothered by the more shallow “employers”. Of course I also found out that a lot of bottom guys prefer bigger tops, but that’s another story. You’ll run into fakes no matter what kind of site you’re on. 1 real guy will make you forget 100,000 fakes. Just block the fakes and move on, but don’t let it get you bitter or discourage you. I found my career by learning from the men I worked for and can’t imagine what life would be without my experiences. I say that because I guarantee you there is an amazing guy on here that would be so grateful for the experience that you’re probably overlooking because he’s not the one posting clickbait twink pictures. It doesn’t matter if 99% of the boys here today are fake as long as you keep your focus on the one that isn’t.