RealHBPosition

Yep. Its 0. Adios folks.

That is all very well said. And while there are reasonable and sensible employers here, there are also a lot of unrealistic expectations. Some guys think they're going to find a dream boy lover who falls into their arms for the price of a crust of bread and a roof over their head. I imagine a lot of houseboys end up in an impossible position of having to choose between being candid and being matched. And while no HB is going to want to fess up to this, most HBs come with issues and being an HB is plan B in their lives. Mental health issues, substance abuse, temperament, whatever it is. Employers have to be willing to accept this reality and be willing to work with what they can work with. More realistic expectations from Employers = More honest HBs.

Oh, I saw another hilarious one. Paraphrasing again for comedic effect "I just graduated from a top school and have a degree in civil engineering. And after having spent > $100,000 on my education, I am ready to be a live-in cock sucker in exchange for room and board forgoing any return on my investment and any application of my degree". Yup, totally credible.

Thanks for sharing your experience. One other thing that works is to insist on having a video call pretty early in the conversation. If they have some excuse why they can't do it, move on.

I've been on and off here for a decade. I had one houseboy situation work out for about 8 years. He didn't have legal status and thats why he went the HB route. He did turn out to have some serous mental health issues but we were able to make it work for that time. It looks like a lot of the longtime fakes and prostitutes have been deleted from this site, and thats great. I know two HBs on this site who are who they say they are, but both are here for fantasy play. Now when I examine HB profiles I don't see a single one that does not raise red flags. Flushing NY address (default if you dont specify an address) Age hasn't changed for years (keeps rolling back his age every year) Nonsensical body dimensions. (Weight listed as 500 lbs, and photo shows a skinny guy) Obvious lies in profile. "I'm not a paid member so I can't respond to you here". (thats not a limitation that exists on this site) TGTBT (too good to be true), Hot young underwear model body boy who wants nothing more than to please an old troll and wants nothing in return. I wish every employer would add to their profile "there is nothing you can say that will convince me to send you money". It might chase away some of the fakes. I've seen posts about fake employers but they are hilarious. Paraphrasing "This employer is fake, he wouldn't send me money before meeting me", HA! Anyone having different results?