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Every Gay man of means, as soon as humanly possible should hire and develop a long term relationship with a private Valet. No matter if his relationships shift, or even if he were to marry, the private nature of his Valet will always become invaluable, especially if the relationship grows into maturity. We never really new what Alfred did for BatMan, but the audience always new Alfred had everything in readiness. "The Readiness is All" Quote from ShakesPeare's play Hamlet. There are many reasons why a man would find himself in a position to be a Valet, and this position and title has been an honored one even before the 17th Century. These Gentlemen that were able to gain this position of Valet or Valet de Chambre gained great favor, and were more than the ManServant to their Masculine employer; but were the confidant to Princes, Dukes and even the King. I believe it is time to bring this position back into being, especially for any Gay Household of means. It is the responsibility of the Valet to create all things private, to be in pristine, and perspicacious order. He is to build his man's confidence, be his ear, and first and foremost make sure his man is a representation of quality and refinement. His closets, and wardrobe kept in order, his bathing chambers in readiness, his linens and sleeping chambers always presentable and comfortable. He is to handle all things that bring calmness, confidence and order to his man's private life. Often times, he becomes the manager of the house, and directs other positions to keep the standards of the entire residence. It would be no ones business what intimate relations, if any, were ever to develop between the Valet and his Employer. There would never be the honor and confidence required, if the only reason the Valet took on the position so he could fuck him some boy. The blatant sexual obviousness of this site is an abomination to the profession, of Valet or HouseMan, or HouseBoy, and should always be discrete to the general public. Let this intimacy be only rumor of envy by the general public, and it is up to the men involving themselves to create that relationship. To make sex an obvious right to gain position creates nothing more than a deleterious "whoredom", and furthermore required sexual acts cannot be a part of any contractual agreement. There should always be a written contractual agreement between the Employer and the positions of Valet, HouseMan, HouseBoy, or Butler. Please leave any comment of this subject to continue to bring this position back into Value in the Twenty-first Century.