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Unless you want to give someone money and get nothing in return, well I mean I'm sure he'll allow you to fly him to you, have sex with you. But I'd read my post entirely before moving forward with this guy...I spent over 4k on this one and got nothing but grief in return. I came on the website to find guys who were seriously looking for some type of relationship, long term situation, etc. As I'm sure most employers on the site here seek. I ran across brainquaked and we immediately began chatting. Granted, he was very young, 19 years old and from Romania, so I had my doubts. But we began webcamming, emailing and texting, and things seemed to go pretty well. I had already planned on going out to Europe, so he talked me into bringing him along during my two weeks abroad. So, the guy that I am, after verifying who he was, getting his ID, chatting for a few months. Sent him out an iPhone so we could chat more easily. Then I booked his flights for our trip. During the time chatting, we got pretty close, and it looked as if we were headed more into a relationship type situation more than a houseboy position, as I wasn't really looking for that sorta thing anyhow as I listed in my profile. He said he had a genuine interest, attraction to me. Was very genuine via Skype, etc. seemed to be a really good guy. So we met up in Copenhagen, looked even better in person. Only issue was, I had to go get him treated for what he said was diagnosed as a UTI. So that's how we spent our first day together, at the hospital getting treatment for that. Obviously I had my doubts that this may have been an STD, but he assured me that he didn't have sex with anyone over the past 6 months, and wouldn't lie to me about it. Come to find out, I was able to get him to confess that he indeed had some random hook up with some guy about a month prior to coming in to meet me. So, I let it go, we weren't boyfriends or anything. However, it was very disappointing of course being lied to. I was later told that he got proof that it was indeed a UTI, but I never saw anything to the fact. So things went okay. We spent about a week in Copenhagen, then we went off to Dublin. We spent a day there, before heading off to London. We spent about 3 days in London. Things were going okay, although we decided to have sex, which didn't go too well because he's not a bottom, which he was gracious enough to try with me. The last night we are in London, at about midnight, he said he was going to go out front for a smoke. We were to leave at 4am on a train out to Paris. 12:30 came around, still gone. 1, 2, finally 2:30am he walks in. He goes into the bathroom, washes up, and comes into the room to go to bed. I asked him where he was and why he would vanish for 2-1/2 hours without telling me as I was worried of course, and he said he wanted to see more of London before leaving. Well, I didn't believe him. I saw him on Grinder before he left, which I asked him about. Said he only goes on to chat with guys, never about sex, only just to chat about the area. Of course I didn't believe him. I told him to go sleep on the couch that I didn't believe anything he was telling me. The next morning, I get up, and while he's in the shower, I have a look at the iPhone that I gave him. Sure enough, there's grinder and texts from some guy telling him how great last night was, how good of a fuck he was, etc. Looked at his grinder messages, all about sex, trying to find guys to hook up with. I was livid. Lying directly to my face, hooking up with some random guy after being treated for an STD. I mean, I honestly wanted to leave him there in London. But of course I'm a nice guy and I didn't do that. Paris, New Years Eve. Was shitty. He was just a real jerk to me the entire time in Paris and ruined my time there. He flew home, and of course, I expected him to block me and ignore me as he did. His name is Cristian, and if you're looking for an escort, he's your guy. If you're looking for anything more than that. He's not. He did show up, so I imagine if you book his flight, take him out for nice meals, buy him things, he'll be your best friend and fuck you all you want. Just be sure to use protection, and keep in mind you won't go any farther than that with this one.