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Hi. I'm Aaron. I need some advice or suggestions and I thought, "I should ask on the forums here." Among other things in my life right now, I'm looking to start teaching some cardio and fitness classes to make some more money. I also really like health and fitness (and nutrition). I want to help other people learn to be healthier versions of themselves, and I'm very knowledgeable about it. Teaching some fitness classes and eventually also personal training a few people with weightlifting makes complete sense for me. So, to start teaching a few classes, I would like to find a space I can rent as cheaply as possible, for about 3 hours each day and five days each week. I guess I need help with two questions? Where would I even start looking for a place like that, that's also gay friendly? (I would also like to do all, or some, of the classes as clothing optional, if that's possible. I'm a nudist at heart.) Also, where/how should I try to find the people who want to pay for and attend my classes? I'm not currently certified, but that is a next step too. I have many years of personal experience with lifting weights, fitness, and nutrition, so I know enough to start my own classes without those certifications yet. However, I need some guidance. Right now I am living in Palm Springs, but that could change in the future as I’m currently looking at houseboy options (see my houseboy profile). Any thoughts? Thank you :-) Aaron (HungFitJock) [houseboy]

The "Front Page" to this website states that a question to resolve is whether to "do an in person interview so you know if there is chemistry or not?" I would think the answer should be yes. Advice: In-Person Meeting (This applies to both houseboys and employers). OK. You've made the initial cut and an in-person meeting has been set up to meet each other. Dress appropriately. This is a job interview. First impressions count. Meet in a safe place. Neutral territory. Maybe a shopping mall, airport or similar populated public location. Safety comes first! Have a safety person who knows where you are. Have check-in times set up with your safety person. Both of you will likely be nervous. But I suspect the houseboy will be much more so than the employer. The employer should try to reduce the nervous tension. Prepare. Don't trust your memory. Write down questions which have not been resolved prior to this meeting. It's OK to refer to notes. It's OK to take handwritten notes. But be careful about using electronic devices as they may be considered to threaten privacy. Up to this point some "artistic license" may be acceptable in your representations to each other. But, when it gets to the actual position offer and acceptance, there needs to be honesty. You should both be willing to fully identify yourself with a government issued ID card to the other. Be prepared to walk (even run) away if things don't seem right. Any other suggestions for an in-person interview to consider or share?