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Greetings to all employers of the site. I have noticed that there are so many scammers and cheaters here. I would like to offer you the opportunity to find the truth that you want, if you contact me I will find you a guy living not in another country but in your country who will agree to the conditions that you specify. For the search of such a boy I would like to receive compensation in the amount of 500$ All who agree write payment occurs only after your boy flies to you personally. No cheating no other country no money in advance or sending money until you are together. If anyone is interested leave your contact or any message under this post I will write you myself.

Taking an opportunity to see if FTL is the right fit for me. May do a trial stay for 1-3+ months. Going through life changes and seeking fresh perspectives. Always been interested in idea of a “houseboy”, but too risk adverse to attempt ... on either side. This is my first swing at bat! If you have any words of wisdom, or FTL places and things to do, both good and not so good, please reach out. I’m attempting to get a full picture of South Florida and the gay community here, plus anything else you would care to share! Thanks guys! Woot! Woot!

I’m new to this and looking for some advice/direction in life. I feel like my sexual needs will determine my hunger for the work. I want to be independent from my parents so financial advice is needed. I have many more questions but would rather chat privately

Hey everyone my name is Xiao. So I'm extremely new to this so i don't know how this goes. A bit if back story on me if any employer has intrest, or if someone just wants to chat, either way I'm all ears. :About me. I'm now 30 an work a dead end job while I struggle to try to get back on my feet after a devorce currently I would like to find someone to connect with, but I find it hard as so many people are fake an will manipulate any situation to there likening. Things I live for is world travel an learning how to run a business properly and learn how to find and gain willful backers to fund projects that can be gainful for both partys. Yet outside of my work life I spend most of my time alone an at home as I am to poor togo places unless I've scraped, and basically starved for several months just to afford a trip. When I say a trip, I actually mean I leave the country one suitcase, passport, and a pair of headphones with simple amenity options. Can someone please help me or am I just a lost cause?? It all comes to I'm ready to put myself out there, but the fear of falling again is mind numbing!

Hi there, I have been working as a houseboy for several years and recently started a new job, I love the work we do together business-wise and I really enjoyed our personal time together these past several months. It was agreed from the start that we were to have an open relaxed relationship, but whatever happened with anyone else was to be kept out of our home and was our own business. However recently my employer met a young man and liked his company, and invited him to stay in our home for a month or two (He said he was not sure of it would be a sexual relationship but it was clear from letters I filed away that it would be most likely) During which time they would share a bedroom together and I would stay in my own private room, me and my employer would have no sort of closeness and it was not to be mentioned to this gentlemen that we had anything other than a strictly platonic relationship. This has really upset me and left me in a terrible way, I confronted him about this and his response was that he could hardly rescind the invitation now and that when we originally laid our boundaries that his exact wording referred to him specifically not having sexual intercourse with anyone in our shared bed, BUT that did not include any of the other rooms on the property or the fact that he could share our bed with them and not do anything sexual. I do not know whether I am just being overly sensitive and have my own issues to deal with but I feel mislead, I could not get him to understand why such a situation upset me so, and was made to feel I was being overly dramatic and that The technicality of his vague wording was a strong enough case for his validation but I just cannot accept that, especially from a man who prides himself and boasts about never telling lies, but to me there’s a big difference, he may not have lied but he was not exactly forthcoming with the truth. I don’t know what to do, I love my job, my friends, the life I have here, my pets and the actual legitimate professional (non-houseboy) career I am building here. But I feel hurt, betrayed and angry, confused, a little naive and embarrassed and I just cannot see a way around it. If anyone has any advice or experienced anything similar or even just has a bloody opinion on the matter I would more than happily take it right now. I don’t know what to do. Thank you for taking the time to read this if you made it this far. J

My location keeps coming up Norwish UK , That is not what I ever entered nor is it correct. I keep changing it but it remains on my ID page when you pic my pic.