Watch out for CJDiggsIt (Eric aka Chris)

[BigBrother66]

After over 500 texts and hours talking to him, I bought a non-refundable airline ticket so he could come and visit. He asked for $50 to cover some travel expenses and I sent it to him thinking if he was a scammer he would have asked for more. On the day he was supposed to fly to meet me, he texted me several times about the trip; going through security, stop over in Philadelphia, etc. When he didn't contact me to pick him up at the airport after the plane landed here, I called the airline and found out he had never boarded the plane in Atlanta. He goes by the name Chris but that is his middle name (or that's what he told me). When I wired him the money, he had me use the name Eric (last name removed by admin) because he said that's what was on his driver's license (said they left off his middle name when he got his license).

[BigBrother66]

Chris isn't a scammer (I couldn't see how to remove that from my original post).

I want to be fair to Chris. After this was posted he emailed me to explain that he was stopped by TSA security at the airport because he didn't have his birth certificate and then he got sick. He said he was too embarrassed to call and tell me what happened. He offered to return what was left of the travel money I had sent him. He didn't explain why he had pretended to text me from Philadelphia. He had told me when I bought the ticket that he had never flown before. I tried to warn him about TSA and what he needed to get through security, I don't know why he didn't listen.

[michael]

If you are only out 50 USD, then no big deal right? But, we are also very clear on here to not send money to anyone. So, you should have listened.

Did you have any video chat with him to confirm his identity? We always suggest this. We are even working on adding a live video chat on this site.

[CJDiggsIt]

Michael,

I offered to send the man his money back if he wants me to I have no issue doing that. I'm not on here asking or begging people for money, that's not what I'm about. I also have SKype and have spoken with several employers on Skype as well. I won't refuse to get on Skype if anyone asks to see me on Skype. As to ensure that I can at least try to have some sort of a decent reputation while I am on this site.

[VBdude4u]

Michael and Big Bro, Don't fall for his explanations and excuses. He did a similar thing to me this week, so is a scammer. I received similar updates as the trip progressed, then nothing. I've reached out to Chris via phone (his voicemail is full), via text, and via email and received no responses to my concern at not arriving when scheduled. So yeah, he is a pro. Don't fall for the lies.

[BigBrother66]

Michael,

It's not the $50 (hell, I spend more than that when I buy birdseed). The issue is that Chris was scamming VBdude4u and myself at the same time (we compared our experiences via email). Chris had a profile on HB for over a year so I have to believe that there are other victims out there. Unlike other scammers who try for a couple of big scores, Chris went for small amounts that people would easily write off. Chris is very personable and takes his time. You get emotionally invested in him and he plays you right until the end, sending you emails pretending to be on his way to meet you, then nothing. At first you are left devastated thinking something may have happened to him, then the sad truth sets in. At that point you are both embarrassed and angry that he has taken you in. He is counting on that embarrassment and the small amount of money you sent him to keep you from posting a warning like I did. That way he can continue to defraud employers. I urge every employer (or houseboy for that matter) to report anyone who is using this site in a dishonest manner, even if no money is involved.

[Guest]

If a guy is too busy thinking with his dick to "read" the obvious warning signs of a scammer, what makes you think he'll take the time to read a list of scammers?

How do you get emotionally invested in someone you've never met? That would be a red flag to me if I was still a houseboy. It doesn't matter if you chat for 10 minutes or 10 years; you'll truly never know who a person is, what he really looks like, and if you'll get along living together until you meet. You bought a $500 ticket for someone and, by the way you worded it, sounds like you sent the money well before the trip. As soon as you realized you bought a plane ticket in one name and was sending the money to another, why would you still see some hope in him showing up (which you did by sending the money anyhow)? If his ID says another name, how was he supposed to board the plane?

Then you write that he's not a scammer, that he was stopped by TSA because he didn't have his birth certificate. Unless he's flying back into his mom's vagina, he doesn't need a birth certificate to fly (not sure how else to respond to such a lame story).

"I urge every employer (or houseboy for that matter) to report anyone who is using this site in a dishonest manner, even if no money is involved. "

I hate to say this, but you're on a site where "employment" is based on looks, gender, and sexuality all without the payment of any taxes. Michael is likely going to hate me for that statement, but it's true. Hey, I'll admit that when I was a houseboy, I didn't pay taxes on the money I received either (except the last employer that put me on the payroll of his company). That statement you made that I quoted means we'd simply have to report everyone that has ever successfully used this site. Besides... reporting scammers only works if a scammer uses his real pictures or name. As we see, that's not the case most of the time. So, what's the point of me saying all that?

It always bugs me to see stuff like this because even though I had a great experience as a houseboy (which led me to my wonderful job and made me realize just how much better it is dating a mature man), I was passed up a few times. Then I would get an email a few days later from that same employer telling me that he was suddenly interested in me again while I'd see a post like this from him in here. I'd always say no because I always thought I was better than someone's backup plan. There are so many good guys out there that could use the hand that a good host could provide, but that hand is always filled by a scammer with smooth words and a cute pic of some random twink (also known as bullsh*t). It's not these guys you need to be posting about watching out for; it's your own lack of judgement when you start thinking with your dick instead of seeing the obvious.

[Ritchie38117]

He is very much a scammer. Beware!! He should be removed from this site.

[Guest]

He is very much a scammer. Beware!! He should be removed from this site.

You fell for this guy too, didn't you? What will removing him from this site do? Would that be what keeps you guys from sending strangers money just because they send you (probably fake) x rated pictures?

I'm not taking up for this guy... yeah, he sounds like trash (can't say what I want to say), but this trash keeps coming back because he knows people will respond to the garbage and bs stories he pushes out there. How many times can you "mature" men be a victim to the same guy's bs?

[Nantucketman]

I also got scammed by Chris(CJDIggsit) two weeks ago after talking to him for a few weeks at night on skype so I knew he was at least real. He kept telling me his house situation was the worst and needed to get out of there so when I went to Ft.Lauderdale with another guy I found to also be a liar and a scammer therefore, Cute777, I told Chris he could drive down from Atlanta and stay with us. He didn't actually ask for money for gas, but just said he could get $15 from an old landlord, and I just volunteered $100 like an idlot and the next day was spent reading his progress report from Atlanta to Florida until he was 20 minutes out and then.....NOTHING! I can't believe I fell for this again! What a fucking idiot I am. So I have finally learned two lessons:

1)NEVER send a dime no matter how much you want some cute guy to get to you

2)Make sure to at least see the guy on cam. My guy, Eric Oetters, claimed to be this cute young guy and sent pics. I paid for an expensive plane ride to Ft.Lauderdale and what arrived was a fairly heavy set 38 year old guy with bad dyed hair, dressed like a bum who claimed he has just "gained weight over the winter".I had to put up with his nonsense for four days and he mostly slept and we never had real sex although it had been promised. I blew him twice even though he tried to worm out of that as well. His only saving grace was he knew the area so we drive around a lot so I saw some gay bars and South Beach but beware, this guy is in it for the travel and doesn't give a care as to what he claims in order to get it.

[Guest]

This is honestly sounding less and less of some big scam. Essentially, this guy cams with people and after that, they send him money in hopes of getting into bed with what they've seen. Sounds less and less like a scam and more like an escort. There's a reason you don't pay for an escort before the services are rendered.

Nantucketman, you say you "put up" with the 38 year old for 4 days by blowing him twice? Just like the scammer that keeps scamming; if you guys keep letting them do it, they're going to keep doing it. If the guy that shows up isn't the guy you thought you were chatting with, why did you even bother picking him up? If he lies about who he is, there's no telling what else he would be lying about. Blowing a guy twice is normally not a good way of showing someone you don't want him around.

You say you blew him even though he tried to get out of it? Are you saying you forced yourself onto him sexually? There is a word for that kind of act, and just like all the other "victims" here, you've once again shown that you're not really a victim here. I'm not sure why admin hasn't filtered out your post yet...

[Nantucketman]

I blew him to see if he resisted that as he promised sex and massage nightly when I corresponded with him and he did not stop me and I did not "force myself" on him. He claimed the pics were him and he had just gained weight. Sort of like me sending you pics of Brad Pitt and then telling you I put on a few over the winter. Chris, however, has obviously scammed quite a few men and seems to have it down pat: plead a bad home life situation as he did to me and how desperate he was to come and live with me and then cam at night with me from McDonald's parking lot where he can get free wi-fi. He BEGGED me to let him come say with us in Florida just to meet me as his situation had deteriorated so badly so I gave in. I sent him Western Union so I know he MUST be carrying ID for his name or else has all sorts of fake ID's as well(That would not surprise me). As long as this site allows ANYONE to pull these things on the honest members honestly just trying to find a young partner or houseboy, it only makes the site look worse not better. And so far I have had five guys contact me who were either scammers or were looking to be "bought" as slaves which I just think is ridiculous. There are other sites for a Sugar Daddy, this should be for young guys seeking work taking care of other older guys looking for a companion/worker to help them with a new life.

[Guest]

Perhaps it's just me, but every word out of your mouth makes you sound creepy. First, you say you blew a guy to show him how mad at him you were.

Then you say he tried to get away when you were blowing him, but you just kept on performing those sexual acts on him because you knew he wouldn't make you stop because he didn't want to be out on the street, but somehow that's not what it means to be forced.

Here's the thing. This site is not allowing anyone to scam anyone. YOU are allowing YOURSELF to be scammed. Ask Michael, the administrator, to tell you what the very first rule on this site is, and he'll tell you over and over again to not send money. Somehow in your world, you are the exception to that because, I mean, surely the story he's telling you has never been told before in order to scam someone out of money.

You said it yourself that you were smart enough to avoid a few other scammers, right? So suddenly, this guy is different?

You say you're an honest guy trying to find a partner on this site, yet you show your anger in someone by blowing him twice while he's squirming, which CLEARLY shows he is uncomfortable with what you're doing, but something in your mind says to keep on blowing him because it's justified by the fact that he's not as skinny as his pictures show. You're so angry that you then drive him around town and take him to some clubs and bars. Yes, THAT is the action of an honest man looking for a partner.

"...this should be for young guys seeking work taking care of other older guys looking for a companion/worker to help them with a new life."

Listen; I was a houseboy and am a much stronger person for it today. I loved my time as a houseboy, but no man picked me; I picked him. If there was a mutual attraction, I ended up there. I was as picky finding a host (employer) as I was at dating. I have had it so bad that I have slept in my damn car instead of going with the first host that said yes. I always knew that leaving one bad situation for another one was no answer. I can agree that this site can open a young guy up to more of a better chance at being a self supporting man. However, I NEVER settled for the kind of guy that would force his way into my pants. If I said I wasn't feeling it, I was left alone (or cuddled with me). I remember one would even kiss my tummy and bring me food in bed when I was ill. I know there are great guys on this site that I'd hate to see scammed.

You are not one of those guys. You want to talk about being an honest man trying to provide a better life for a younger "companion", then you say you were mad at him because he wasn't as thin and cute as you thought he'd be. Like I said before, a few of my employers actually had me on the payroll of their company, so I know what it is like to be a houseboy for a true employer. You're not one of those guys. You want a "boy" that will come to you and do what you want him to do to you sexually and you know he will because he has no where else to go. It is you who's taking advantage of this site and the guys on here, not the other way around. Because you're so busy playing your games and trying to justify it, you're too blind to see when you're getting played. THAT is what's going on here.

This site is full of decent houseboys and employers, and then there are the horny old guys looking to take advantage of some poor kid's situation because that's their only way of getting a "boy" to pay any attention that call themselves the "employer" only because they have a house and are older, and you also have these young men that know how to say what any desperate man wants to hear so that when they send a few sexy pictures, they know they'll get some money for it. There are scammers on both sides. I'm not taking up for this CJDiggshit or whatever his name is, but I'm sorry; Mr. Nantucketman, you're full of sh*t. EVERYTHING you have said has been contradicted by something else you've said.

Still, you have to help me understand your way of reasoning. Essentially, you're saying that you looked at this guy and said to yourself "I'm so mad at you that I'm going to suck your dick". See why you're coming off as creepy?

It's not that these boys are on the wrong site by being here. Perhaps you should be looking on sites that cater to cheap escort services. Just a bit of advice, though... don't pay in advance.