Watch out for Cameron, formerly lovedoctor19

[clayton]

Watch out for Cameron, and I found out formerly known as lovedoctor19. We communicated and agreed on a price per month to move here and be houseboy. So I made all the flight reservations and he never showed up and like all fakes he stopped replying to emails and answering his phone. He says he is in the Canary Islands now, so who knows where he really is.

Clayton

[Guest]

He might not be fake. He may have just found a better deal. Hate to tell you, but that's how it works. Employers do it too all the time when talking to more than one person at a time. I know; I've been one of those forgotten ones (until the one he picked didn't work out and then he emails me a month later to see if I'm still interested). I have unwittingly done the same thing as a houseboy to employers because I was so excited about one particular offer. I've also had more than one screen name and account on this site (cancel one, then miss the site and come back, etc).

Also, you're not supposed to post a person's full name here. The name you posted was clearly never a screen name but is his name. Really does seem like you posted this out of spite because you were rejected in the end.

[mikeyb]

I know one shouldn't use names but this name caught my attention because I've had similar conversations with him over the last month. I was on the verge of booking flights for him but became suspicious when he told me he needed money for food so I backed out of the arrangement.

[Guest]

Sounds like you're one of the few actual mature men that doesn't play games. Still, two wrongs don't make a right. His name shouldn't matter if these guys getting scammed would stop falling for the same sad story and the same xxx rated pix.

[mikeyb]

Quite right 'due dilligence' is the mantra the banks have adopted. We older guys are seen as targets and very often easy targets so it's necessary to be cautious and take an informed decession, if we take a chance be aware of it and don't moan if it doesn't work out.

[Guest]

Not all older guys; just the gullible ones.

You know, there was/is nothing I loved and still do more than a beautiful mature man that actually seemed interested in me far before we ever talk about anything sexual (if we do at all). Getting emailed by some old (or young) horny guy that obviously viewed the sex as the highlight of it all was always annoying, but being emailed by someone that would say something like "I just couldn't stop reading your profile" or "I've never been with a black guy, but your profile is exactly what I'm looking for..." was always what made me excited to be on this site. I mean, being the object of some undersexed horned up guy is easy and made me feel kind of easy. Being with a man that has no sexual attraction to me but seems to not get enough of my company; now that's what I loved. Then months into it, like my last experience as a houseboy, we'd be doing something routine like walking to the car and he'd just stop and turn around... before I could say anything, he'd just kiss me and then stand there nervously awaiting my reaction. It doesn't get any sweeter than that. Well, actually it did. We had sex right there on the garage floor. That night, I went to go to bed in my room and he just took my hand and I slept in bed with him from then on. As in many houseboy situations, I was the first black guy most of those gentlemen had ever been with sexually, but it was because we had developed a bond based solely on loving each other for what we were. All that made me feel quite good.

So there are two points of all of what I just said.

Employers: not all older men are seen as targets. Only the gullible ones are, ESPECIALLY the ones that post things on here saying "Watch out for...". Just like we see multiple posts these guys post about being scammed by one guy after the next, so do these scammers. They know exactly to go after because he can tell that guy didn't learn anything for it. Instead of stating ANYTHING that would suggest they learned from it, they post stuff putting the blame all on that scammer or this site for letting it happen. Because of that, none of us are surprised to see them on here again. There is no situation where you absolutely must send someone money. Sure, providing the transportation is always nice and it isn't something the houseboy can just take and spend, but actually sending someone you never met money... as bad of an idea it is, it's always a red flag to see a "mature" man make the mistake that even a teenager would know not to do. In the eyes of guys like me, it separates the mature men from those that are just old men.

Houseboys: if a man appears to want to buy your attention and presence, you can do better. Believe it or not, a man that wants to send you money to come to him is often times a red flag, but most houseboys don't see it through the green they see. Really; if you're here to be a houseboy, there is a reason you're on here and not posted up on some escort site. You still are human, no matter what your situation is, and you still shouldn't be settling for the first desperate guy that comes along. There might be a reason a man has to pay people to be around him. I'm not talking about the employer providing the transportation for you to get there; I'm talking about those that are sending you money in exchange for what you'll do for them between the sheets. I'm not twink or anything like that, but even I can tell you from experience that you will find the kind of man out there (on this site) that will truly be interested in you just as you are. Even if there is a sexual attraction, it won't be the main attraction, but it should definitely be a mutual attraction.

[BigBrother66]

I was contacted this morning by "Cameron" through an email address I send to houseboys I'm interested in. When I told him I hadn't written to anyone in the Canary Islands and asked how he had gotten my address, he said he was using the screen name moondoll21 with a the location of Manchester England UK.

[clayton]

He is a scam artist and has been at it for years. I went back through emails a couple years back and found his pictures with different names from different countries but basically the same story, poor, had a partner that cheated on him, mom and dad died, just some of his stories.

[Guest FloridaKilos]

Sucks that these things happen, And kinda ruins it for others like me on here. But as always, Your aware when somethings seems sketchy or to back out when asked for money. Good luck finding a houseboy