I seriously want to be in a older gentleman's life as their houseboy/ companion but it seems like only flakes exist on this site. I thought men were about action? Guess I got the wrong message. 

I notice that your profile on the main site says you have only been a member for 5 days. Perhaps you need to be a little more patient.

I have been a member for some time and have engaged a number of houseboys over the years with my partner. Yes there are flakes- both employers and houseboys but not very many in my observation.

If you are willing to accept advice then I suggest you could alter your profile to show how you can be of use to an employer and not merely to just show what you want.  None of us are perfect, as you suggest on your profile but you will need to present yourself in the best possible light if you expect a stranger to take you into their home and life and in the best of outcomes to help you make something of yourself and have a good life.