Please change the Wink Message!

[nakEdSoFL]

I used the Wink feature a few times to start a connection. I just looked through my messages and was horrified to see the actual text of the wink. It had apparently been copied/pasted from another affiliated site. Can you please make the message more appropriate for this site, and is there a way you can delete all the previous winks that were sent with the old message. I'm afraid I may have accidentally offended some potential connections with inappropriate text.